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Americanme

(227 posts)
82. I have 2 brothers, both trump supporters.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 06:27 PM
20 hrs ago

My older brother has no computer, has no smart phone. Loves Fox News. He tells me he thinks I am wrong, but we do have good conversations, and he listens, or pretends to. We are close, regardless. My younger brother is a radical. He will get in yelling matches, with me, with our mother, with complete strangers when he overhears them disrespecting his cult leader. I went to his house with our older brother last weekend, to climb on his roof and trim tree limbs away, so roofers can work. He was sobbing to our mother that he couldn't do it. In the course of the work, we were talking about Social Security and Medicare. My brothers are both positive that the entire problem is fraud committed by poor people. I said Rick Scott was a bigger fraud problem, and instead of punishment, he got elected to public office. Little bro did not like that, yelled at me, said we cannot talk about his party, because he has very strong feelings. Well, I have strong feelings too, but his are more important, I guess. Anyway, now that he doesn't need anything, I'm sure it will be a few years before we speak again. We live less than 2 miles apart, but we only speak every few years. He is a moocher and a chronic complainer, and he is sure the problem is always someone else.

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I was right. Excellent Post My Friend BOSSHOG Wednesday #3
Amen man and thanks for sticking your neck on the line for your nation kwolf68 Wednesday #5
Congrats to your son on his vote for Harris! Prof. Toru Tanaka 21 hrs ago #77
Congrats! Like taking the garbage out. SheltieLover Wednesday #4
It's a weird feeling kwolf68 Wednesday #7
Sounds as if you made excellent choices for your wedding. SheltieLover Wednesday #17
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I can't even get past his using the expression Tampon Tim DeeDeeNY Wednesday #6
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it's a slam on women and anyone who cares about women Skittles Wednesday #20
History of the slur... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #34
right Skittles Yesterday #56
Governor Walz is everything a good leader should be DeeDeeNY Yesterday #58
The slur against Governor Walz littlemissmartypants Wednesday #35
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A wintertime snowbird pickleball friend posted on Facebook... Dickster Wednesday #9
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SHEESH! calimary Yesterday #55
I had an extended family member inform me that he was unfriending me on FB pnwmom Wednesday #11
I've never gotten past "unfriend" Skittles Wednesday #24
What took you so long? Gimpyknee Wednesday #12
Honestly.... kwolf68 Wednesday #18
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The Facebook and X battlefield has been lost to disinformation and the malignantly cruel and stupid among us. Efilroft Sul Wednesday #13
Yea. I was thinking of that kwolf68 Wednesday #19
You're right, that this difference of opinions goes beyond mere politics. Efilroft Sul Wednesday #26
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I was considering doing that...but kwolf68 Wednesday #21
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Yeah, I'm with you. I haven't seen the point in being friends with conservatives whatsoever since the early 2000s. Karasu Wednesday #32
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I cut them all off in 2016-17 CanonRay Wednesday #40
I have a cousin... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #41
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We live in parallel universes that never intersect. Amaryllis Yesterday #50
Many times Grumpy Old Guy Wednesday #43
You know what's Anti-American? Qutzupalotl Wednesday #45
thank you! samsingh Yesterday #46
the thing is -- what kind of person do you really want to be friends with? orleans Yesterday #47
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ANTI-TRUMP IS PRO-AMERICAN!!!!!! Jack Valentino Yesterday #53
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The only friend I had who I now think has probably completely been swallowed by MAGA soldierant 21 hrs ago #75
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A few months ago, I cut ties w/ a old college buddy of 45+ years, MAGA IrishBubbaLiberal 21 hrs ago #78
I blew up on 2 "friends". Gave 4-5 minute yelling at them. chouchou 21 hrs ago #79
When they can't stand responses that ring too true, they drop me instead. Festivito 20 hrs ago #80
So many of you ending friendships. Terryshine 20 hrs ago #81
I have 2 brothers, both trump supporters. Americanme 20 hrs ago #82
I ghosted my trumper friends. luvallpeeps 20 hrs ago #83
Oh yeah. Ended several "friendships" over rascist, "libertarian" ideology. They were basically like FU to non-whites Evolve Dammit 19 hrs ago #84
trump supporters are stupid and live in their own world LetMyPeopleVote 19 hrs ago #85
Fill your life with people who bring you joy. legallyblondeNYC 18 hrs ago #86
Amen kwolf68 18 hrs ago #88
I had enough of their Fux Nooze BS for about 30 years now mdbl 18 hrs ago #87
Stay strong brother! No more wasted energy. oasis 18 hrs ago #89
Thanks friend kwolf68 18 hrs ago #90
Shortly after Bush II was awarded the 2000 election oasis 17 hrs ago #92
Thanks kwolf68 17 hrs ago #93
I took out the maga trash a long time ago. camartinwv 17 hrs ago #91
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