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41. My deepest condolences

Sat Jan 4, 2025, 08:43 PM

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My mother passed away last August after 99 beautiful years so I sympathize with you. I was by her bedside and could physically feel her absence when she passed. Even though she had prior arrangements with the funeral home I was surprised there was still so much to do and decisions to make. But everything was done with our love of her in mind as I’m sure you will as well and will lead to a beautiful tribute in memory of her.

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You are doing very well, so hang in there. Irish_Dem Saturday #1

The loss of a mother leaves a void that words cannot fill. Emile Saturday #2

Deeply sorry for your loss AltairIV Saturday #3

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I have found the staff at the National Cemeteries to be helpful and caring. 70sEraVet Sunday #84

Both of my parents are buried in a veteran cemetery in MA. Between the funeral home and the VA, it all went well. usaf-vet Sunday #94

I'm... JoeOtterbein Saturday #5

How sad and painful for you. You will do the best you can. It will be enough. Nanuke Saturday #6

Deepest sympathy malaise Saturday #7

My condolences on your loss. Xavier Breath Saturday #8

I am so sorry for your loss, slightly. sheshe2 Saturday #9

Sorry for your loss. Americanme Saturday #10

You need to take a deep breath and just mourn a little. MadameButterfly Saturday #11

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, Madame... slightlv Saturday #33

it sounds like MadameButterfly Saturday #74

I am so sorry for your loss; may your Mom cross gently & may your hearts be comforted by good memories Hekate Saturday #12

I'm so sorry you lost your mom. Diamond_Dog Saturday #13

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Saturday #14

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it sure is, Malaise! SheltieLover Saturday #36

That's what's so strange, Malaise... slightlv Saturday #37

A beautiful response from you malaise Saturday #39

My sincere condolences. Dennis Donovan Saturday #15

Very sorry for your loss... Dem4life1970 Saturday #16

I am so sorry senseandsensibility Saturday #17

My condolences to you and your family. The burial details will work themselves out. sinkingfeeling Saturday #18

I am very sorry for your loss, slightlv. brer cat Saturday #19

Strength and honor. WheelWalker Saturday #21

Condolences on your loss Alice Kramden Saturday #22

I like that . Thank you. surfered Saturday #24

This quote helped me many times Alice Kramden Saturday #25

Never heard it before. surfered Saturday #27

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And find time to take care of you malaise Saturday #43

GREAT quote. "All you can do is all you can do, and all you can do is enough." calimary Sunday #97

That's hard. Being an only child, I had no sibling issues about final arrangements. surfered Saturday #23

Thank all of you for being so compassionate rich7862 Saturday #28

My condolences, it's a difficult confusing time bucolic_frolic Saturday #30

If it's any consolation. Those of us who have buried our mothers and fathers.... OAITW r.2.0 Saturday #31

It IS a consolation, slightlv Saturday #40

Glad I could contribute in this thread. Lost my Dad in 76 and my mom 1999. OAITW r.2.0 Saturday #50

The funeral home should be able to hold your mother's body. We held my MIL for over a week till family badhair77 Saturday #35

You answered one of my biggest questions and worries, badhair... slightlv Saturday #46

The 10 days was for PA and that was almost 20 years ago but I doubt anything has changed. badhair77 Saturday #64

My deepest condolences Shambala Saturday #41

That's the one real regret I have, that I've not uttered til now. slightlv Saturday #71

I am so sorry that your dear mother has passed Tanuki Saturday #42

However you do it, it will be right. Its clear from your post how important it is to you to take care of her this last MLAA Saturday #44

You are not alone. usonian Saturday #45

Love To You From Here Y'all MayReasonRule Saturday #47

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Totally good putting this in GD! AKwannabe Saturday #49

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Sending you blessings of comfort and peace Wicked Blue Saturday #52

She would want you to be kind to yourself. Moms are like that so, Maru Kitteh Saturday #53

you'll do her proud. barbtries Saturday #54

Losing your mom ms.pamela Saturday #60

I am so sorry, Slightly. choie Saturday #55

My condolences. Sorry you have extra obstacles to have everything properly done... electric_blue68 Saturday #56

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is so hard Maraya1969 Saturday #57

Peace be with you. jeffreyi Saturday #58

I am very sorry for your loss 🤗 Meowmee Saturday #59

I've told every one of my friends and family slightlv Saturday #72

Sad they don't do that Meowmee Saturday #75

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I'm sorry for your loss Danmel Saturday #61

So sorry. Dear_Prudence Saturday #62

Breathe Xipe Totec Saturday #63

I was the same way when my Mom died Figarosmom Saturday #65

First of all... WinstonSmith4740 Saturday #66

Wishing you strength and peace DaBronx Saturday #67

Condolences. It's tough. Been there. paleotn Saturday #68

I hadn't even thought about a task list! slightlv Saturday #73

No worries. Trust me, nothing is obvious when you're in that situation. paleotn Sunday #86

I'm so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Saturday #69

Dear slightly, I am sorry for the death of your mom. May her memories be a blessing to you. debm55 Saturday #70

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Saturday #76

For my 2 cents' worth, you'll be fine in everything you do. Keep up the good work and your spirits. SWBTATTReg Saturday #77

I'm so sorry for your loss cate94 Sunday #78

I am so very sorry for your loss. Unladen Swallow Sunday #79

Your mom knows you are doing your best. Joinfortmill Sunday #80

I'm so sorry for your loss, slightly. summer_in_TX Sunday #81

Slightly, I am so very sorry for the loss of your mother. Dem2theMax Sunday #82

Honor your mom. Don't worry what others think, whether siblings or friends. Do what you know she'd want. ancianita Sunday #83

Don't beat yourself up over this. Paladin Sunday #85

I'm so sorry that you are going through this karin_sj Sunday #87

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You seem to be doing remarkably well under the circumstances. OldBaldy1701E Sunday #88

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Sorry for your loss. yagotme Sunday #90

Your mom Clouds Passing Sunday #91

You are doing fine. EndlessWire Sunday #92

I'm so sorry for your devastating loss, slightlv Niagara Sunday #95

My mother passed a decade ago. Prairie_Seagull Sunday #96

My Mom was a horrible cook... and she'd tell that to anyone! slightlv Sunday #100

I really like some more complex foods. Prairie_Seagull Sunday #106

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My most sincere condolences. B.See Sunday #104

I'm in this Kansas blizzard too, and rhiannon55 Sunday #105