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AltairIV

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3. Deeply sorry for your loss

Sat Jan 4, 2025, 08:10 PM

Jan 4

Stay strong, keep the lines of communication open between all family members, be open and honest, but always be true to your mother intentions and yours.

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I don't know if this is okay to put here [View all] slightlv Jan 4 OP

You are doing very well, so hang in there. Irish_Dem Jan 4 #1

The loss of a mother leaves a void that words cannot fill. Emile Jan 4 #2

Deeply sorry for your loss AltairIV Jan 4 #3

This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 4 #4

I have found the staff at the National Cemeteries to be helpful and caring. 70sEraVet Jan 5 #84

Both of my parents are buried in a veteran cemetery in MA. Between the funeral home and the VA, it all went well. usaf-vet Jan 5 #94

I'm... JoeOtterbein Jan 4 #5

How sad and painful for you. You will do the best you can. It will be enough. Nanuke Jan 4 #6

Deepest sympathy malaise Jan 4 #7

My condolences on your loss. Xavier Breath Jan 4 #8

I am so sorry for your loss, slightly. sheshe2 Jan 4 #9

Sorry for your loss. Americanme Jan 4 #10

You need to take a deep breath and just mourn a little. MadameButterfly Jan 4 #11

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, Madame... slightlv Jan 4 #33

it sounds like MadameButterfly Jan 4 #74

I am so sorry for your loss; may your Mom cross gently & may your hearts be comforted by good memories Hekate Jan 4 #12

I'm so sorry you lost your mom. Diamond_Dog Jan 4 #13

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Jan 4 #14

Thank you for the link, Sheltie... slightlv Jan 4 #20

Lean away my friend SheltieLover Jan 4 #26

You are a great resource, SheltieLover. erronis Jan 4 #32

Awwwwm ty. SheltieLover Jan 4 #34

Crying is good malaise Jan 4 #29

it sure is, Malaise! SheltieLover Jan 4 #36

That's what's so strange, Malaise... slightlv Jan 4 #37

A beautiful response from you malaise Jan 4 #39

My sincere condolences. Dennis Donovan Jan 4 #15

Very sorry for your loss... Dem4life1970 Jan 4 #16

I am so sorry senseandsensibility Jan 4 #17

My condolences to you and your family. The burial details will work themselves out. sinkingfeeling Jan 4 #18

I am very sorry for your loss, slightlv. brer cat Jan 4 #19

Strength and honor. WheelWalker Jan 4 #21

Condolences on your loss Alice Kramden Jan 4 #22

I like that . Thank you. surfered Jan 4 #24

This quote helped me many times Alice Kramden Jan 4 #25

Never heard it before. surfered Jan 4 #27

I've never heard that one, but I'm bookmarking it slightlv Jan 4 #38

And find time to take care of you malaise Jan 4 #43

GREAT quote. "All you can do is all you can do, and all you can do is enough." calimary Jan 5 #97

That's hard. Being an only child, I had no sibling issues about final arrangements. surfered Jan 4 #23

Thank all of you for being so compassionate rich7862 Jan 4 #28

My condolences, it's a difficult confusing time bucolic_frolic Jan 4 #30

If it's any consolation. Those of us who have buried our mothers and fathers.... OAITW r.2.0 Jan 4 #31

It IS a consolation, slightlv Jan 4 #40

Glad I could contribute in this thread. Lost my Dad in 76 and my mom 1999. OAITW r.2.0 Jan 4 #50

The funeral home should be able to hold your mother's body. We held my MIL for over a week till family badhair77 Jan 4 #35

You answered one of my biggest questions and worries, badhair... slightlv Jan 4 #46

The 10 days was for PA and that was almost 20 years ago but I doubt anything has changed. badhair77 Jan 4 #64

My deepest condolences Shambala Jan 4 #41

That's the one real regret I have, that I've not uttered til now. slightlv Jan 4 #71

I am so sorry that your dear mother has passed Tanuki Jan 4 #42

However you do it, it will be right. Its clear from your post how important it is to you to take care of her this last MLAA Jan 4 #44

You are not alone. usonian Jan 4 #45

Love To You From Here Y'all MayReasonRule Jan 4 #47

Is there anyway to move this discussion from this forum slightlv Jan 4 #48

Totally good putting this in GD! AKwannabe Jan 4 #49

Sorry for your loss marked50 Jan 4 #51

Sending you blessings of comfort and peace Wicked Blue Jan 4 #52

She would want you to be kind to yourself. Moms are like that so, Maru Kitteh Jan 4 #53

you'll do her proud. barbtries Jan 4 #54

Losing your mom ms.pamela Jan 4 #60

I am so sorry, Slightly. choie Jan 4 #55

My condolences. Sorry you have extra obstacles to have everything properly done... electric_blue68 Jan 4 #56

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is so hard Maraya1969 Jan 4 #57

Peace be with you. jeffreyi Jan 4 #58

I am very sorry for your loss 🤗 Meowmee Jan 4 #59

I've told every one of my friends and family slightlv Jan 4 #72

Sad they don't do that Meowmee Jan 4 #75

Look into a jewish burial Mosby Jan 5 #93

I'm sorry for your loss Danmel Jan 4 #61

So sorry. Dear_Prudence Jan 4 #62

Breathe Xipe Totec Jan 4 #63

I was the same way when my Mom died Figarosmom Jan 4 #65

First of all... WinstonSmith4740 Jan 4 #66

Wishing you strength and peace DaBronx Jan 4 #67

Condolences. It's tough. Been there. paleotn Jan 4 #68

I hadn't even thought about a task list! slightlv Jan 4 #73

No worries. Trust me, nothing is obvious when you're in that situation. paleotn Jan 5 #86

I'm so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Jan 4 #69

Dear slightly, I am sorry for the death of your mom. May her memories be a blessing to you. debm55 Jan 4 #70

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Jan 5 #76

For my 2 cents' worth, you'll be fine in everything you do. Keep up the good work and your spirits. SWBTATTReg Jan 5 #77

I'm so sorry for your loss cate94 Jan 5 #78

I am so very sorry for your loss. Unladen Swallow Jan 5 #79

Your mom knows you are doing your best. Joinfortmill Jan 5 #80

I'm so sorry for your loss, slightly. summer_in_TX Jan 5 #81

Slightly, I am so very sorry for the loss of your mother. Dem2theMax Jan 5 #82

Honor your mom. Don't worry what others think, whether siblings or friends. Do what you know she'd want. ancianita Jan 5 #83

Don't beat yourself up over this. Paladin Jan 5 #85

I'm so sorry that you are going through this karin_sj Jan 5 #87

Thank you for your suggestions! slightlv Jan 5 #99

You seem to be doing remarkably well under the circumstances. OldBaldy1701E Jan 5 #88

I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Jan 5 #89

Sorry for your loss. yagotme Jan 5 #90

Your mom Clouds Passing Jan 5 #91

You are doing fine. EndlessWire Jan 5 #92

I'm so sorry for your devastating loss, slightlv Niagara Jan 5 #95

My mother passed a decade ago. Prairie_Seagull Jan 5 #96

My Mom was a horrible cook... and she'd tell that to anyone! slightlv Jan 5 #100

I really like some more complex foods. Prairie_Seagull Jan 5 #106

So very sorry IbogaProject Jan 5 #98

Thank you to everyone for your information, links slightlv Jan 5 #101

I'm so sorry for your loss - TBF Jan 5 #102

I'm very sorry for your loss dlk Jan 5 #103

My most sincere condolences. B.See Jan 5 #104

I'm in this Kansas blizzard too, and rhiannon55 Jan 5 #105