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End of Life Issues

Jilly_in_VA

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6. This is what happened with my son

Reply to sinkingfeeling (Reply #5)

Sun Jul 5, 2026, 02:54 PM

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when he died by suicide. My SIL called 911, the cops came, and they handled everything else. My daughter was upstairs trying not to fall apart while she explained everything to her kids.

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Question about when a friend dies and you are the one who finds them.What do you do? [View all] mitch96 Sunday OP

Does she have hospice? Her family should have a number for you to call. Srkdqltr Sunday #1

Call the police on the non emergency number, explain it's an expected death questionseverything Sunday #2

Maybe talk to... 2naSalit Sunday #3

Vigil is a wonderful duty of service bucolic_frolic Sunday #4

I called 911 after finding my sister who committed suicide. That brought the police and EMTs. They handled the sinkingfeeling Sunday #5

This is what happened with my son Jilly_in_VA Sunday #6

I would think you call the emergency services noneless. drray23 Sunday #7

When I cared for my mom when she was dying, hospice gave me a contact Sailingdiver Sunday #8

No hospice? No doctor involved? Easterncedar Sunday #9

Hospice, or cops. carpetbagger Sunday #10

Thank you all for your kind words and information...mitch...nt mitch96 Monday #11