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The_jackalope

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Thu Aug 31, 2017, 07:28 PM Aug 2017

The time is set. [View all]

Mrs. Jackalope has had two independent medical assessments as required by law, and has been ruled eligible to receive medical assistance in dying. She will have the procedure on Tuesday, after the mandatory 10-day waiting period has expired. The consulting physicians were kind, empathetic, and caring beyond our expectations. They are doing everything in their power to ensure her a peaceful, pain-free death. The home care nurses who have come every day are similarly dedicated to her comfort. The entire palliative care system has performed in the highest traditions of compassion at every turn.

She and I have been meditating tonight on the amount of horror and misery that exists in the world. In contrast, the degree of privilege represented by our experience is breathtaking and humbling. That it is available without cost or question to an ordinary, impoverished middle class couple scrubs away the grimy crust of cynicism, to reveal the best of humanity.

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The time is set. [View all] The_jackalope Aug 2017 OP
Thank you for letting us know. NT enough Aug 2017 #1
I hope they are MuseRider Aug 2017 #2
Thank you for those thoughts. The_jackalope Aug 2017 #7
I am really sorry for your loss. tymorial Aug 2017 #3
May she go gently on her last journey. Voltaire2 Aug 2017 #4
My heart & thoughts are with you. CrispyQ Aug 2017 #5
Peace be with both of you. Zoonart Aug 2017 #6
You both sound like people who represent that... 3catwoman3 Aug 2017 #8
I thank you for your updates and wish you and your family sinkingfeeling Aug 2017 #9
... handmade34 Aug 2017 #10
How hard. Wishing you both peace. mahina Aug 2017 #11
Hoping volstork Aug 2017 #12
Love from Texas, Jackalope fam elehhhhna Aug 2017 #13
Love the sentiment in your last paragraph Marie Marie Aug 2017 #14
There are no adequate words to describe my sadness question everything Aug 2017 #15
I spent 18 months caring for my Father SonofDonald Aug 2017 #16
Very powerful post hibbing Aug 2017 #17
You are lucky to be where you & your wife can have dignity in death. Honeycombe8 Aug 2017 #18
may the coming days be gentle. irisblue Aug 2017 #19
Wishing you all the strength, and compassion I can. Brogrizzly Aug 2017 #20
Very sad.. Stuart G Aug 2017 #21
Your unconditional love and support is a tribute to her central scrutinizer Aug 2017 #22
Wishing you strength jackolope! kimbutgar Aug 2017 #23
May you both find the peace you need. herding cats Aug 2017 #24
I hope you both understand that politicians are not even close to the best of us. Dustlawyer Aug 2017 #25
I'm glad you found caring people to help you through this Warpy Aug 2017 #26
you both have more courage than I would have.... chillfactor Aug 2017 #27
Thank you for sharing. SergeStorms Aug 2017 #28
Your sharing is cilla4progress Aug 2017 #29
Love to you both radical noodle Aug 2017 #30
One of the most beautiful expressions of the soul, ever. slumcamper Aug 2017 #31
Peace MFM008 Aug 2017 #32
... Skittles Sep 2017 #33
Fly high Mrs. Jackalope! Heartstrings Sep 2017 #34
This message was self-deleted by its author The_jackalope Sep 2017 #35
Love and peace to you both. Freedomofspeech Sep 2017 #36
-Blessings to you both.... Boxerfan Sep 2017 #37
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