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Behind the Aegis

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13. I think it is a very good statement.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 02:01 PM
Mar 2013

I particularly like the second paragraph. Since you did such a good job, it is hard to "pick it apart," but.... ( ... I would like to add a couple of ideas:

....Someting that indicates one's sexual orientation/identity is also not an issue; meaning, if you are GLBT and have been victimized, you too are welcome in this group. I know this might seem redundant, but a number of GLBT people are intimidated, not only by the act against them, but because they are GLBT. (That actually happened to me here, at DU, twice.)

...A reminder that, while this is a judgment-free area, it is important to remember others have access to this area, so share accordingly. I know it sounds ominous, but after what a few of us have experienced, I really do want people to feel safe here, but not worry once they go back to general areas they will be attacked or harassed.

...This group is for support, not a forum to attack other members of society, except for those responsible for the acts or those who would allow these acts to be minimized or ignored.

...I don't want to sound unfriendly, but should we also include something that basically says if you can't follow these points, you will be immediately blocked?

As for host, I think you'd be fine. I don't know you'd chase people off or not. There are a few groups where I absolutely cannot stand one or more of the hosts, but it doesn't stop me from posting there. I know others may not feel the same, but I feel most of us have some baggage with a different group anyway. So, personally, I am OK with you or one_voice hosting. I don't think it will be taxing, but we really should have a host...just in case (I learned my lesson the hard way in regards to another group).

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We should make a list of resources too n/t LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #1
Totally agree. Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #2
This place seems to have a good list: LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #4
It is an impressive collection. n/t Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #5
That is impressive. Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #6
Good list! one_voice Mar 2013 #8
Yes. n/t Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #3
Yes, also as LadyHawk suggested in the other thread... one_voice Mar 2013 #7
It is a bit more challenging here - Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #9
I'm writing this one separately because I will likely delete it in a few days Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #10
Photobucket is anonymous LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #12
That is part of the issue - Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #15
Here's a start. LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #11
I think it is a very good statement. Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #13
Updated to include your input LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #18
It looks really good. Thanks for taking to the time to do it. n/t Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #26
Yes, that sounds good!! one_voice Mar 2013 #14
LOL! Really?! YOU! 18 people?! Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #16
It's worth a try LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #19
I think we'd do fine.. one_voice Mar 2013 #24
Hosting - Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #17
Yes, I know what the issues are LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #21
Hmm...wonder if we're on the same side or opposite sides Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #23
Today is a crazy day - Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #20
OK LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #22
I like the updates... one_voice Mar 2013 #25
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