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billh58

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13. My favorite excerpt from the link above:
Fri Nov 22, 2013, 07:59 PM
Nov 2013
BASIC DOs AND DON’Ts

DO understand that there are lots of different types of gun owners. Some have them for protection, and some are gearheads who just like them as machines. Some people collect certain types of guns because they’re cool, and others just like stuff that’s loud, spits fire and blows holes in things. Often, a gun enthusiast is some combination of all of these.

DON’T lump the above gun owners in with the “Second Amendment” crowd. These 2A people own guns primarily because they feel inadequate, and live in fear because of it. They’re terrified of meeting an equal, and will almost always run from a fight if they don’t have a clear advantage going in.

DO remember at all times that these 2A people live in a state of constant fear, and they resent others who don’t. They’re going to do everything they can do to make others feel the same way they do.

DON’T bother with the “phallic symbol” thing. They don’t understand what it means, and the “inadequacy” they feel is a bit more layered than that. They might feel inadequate physically, but it may just as easily be mental or emotional. Often, they feel unprepared to compete in the modern world… because they are.

DO call them out on their fear, weakness and inadequacy…but BE EMPATHETIC. Be SYMPATHETIC about their shortcomings. It’s the one thing they absolutely cannot stand. Especially when you point out that the gun itself only proves their fear, weakness and sense of inadequacy. Make them face their demons, and force them to regard the gun itself as a symbol of their fear. Do that, and they’ll eventually come to hate it on principle.

This pretty much sums up the difference between the majority of Americans and American gun owners, and the cold-dead-hands NRA/Gungeon type of gun nut.

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Those are good. Problem I have found is that gun fanciers are often irrational, hence gun love. Hoyt Nov 2013 #1
Rational arguments don't work... orwell Nov 2013 #2
Those are indeed billh58 Nov 2013 #3
You're new at this aren't you. discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #4
Meaning what??? n/t GP6971 Nov 2013 #5
Just to make a few points discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #6
And this Group billh58 Nov 2013 #7
As I understand it... discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #8
Again, this Group billh58 Nov 2013 #9
Look Bill... discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #10
Tell it to billh58 Nov 2013 #11
Shrug discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #12
My favorite excerpt from the link above: billh58 Nov 2013 #13
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