what i see, from my perspective only, having raised two boy with a very strong and participating mom, yet totally outside the box thinking, .....
you are good men. you stand with us. you support and even speak up also. but, not being a woman, you do not see a lot of what we have been watching the last handful of years.
bj, (and many will giggle, cause i keep callin some kid with initials for a name, bj, .... giggle giggle), (this, everything about the damn penis), .... lol, ...
academically, intellectually you know. but clueless on the amount that is thrown at women daily. totally exhausting for us. as the men say, i am tired. i hear ya. me too.
but, these groups org. we saw this much sooner than a lot of these men. now they say, ... fug... what happened? and we say, this is what we have been talking about the last 5 yrs.
for over a decade, show after show insulting women. denigrating them buying, renting, beating, raping, ....
any given show. i am so exhausted. i do not want to be sitting in my home, continually seeing this shit. and it is everywhere, all the time. i turned off the tv. but, there are others in my family that like tv. i do not play the games. but my guys love them. part of living as a unit is respecting each other. and their right to turn on a tv. a good show. i walk in the room and a rape, or normalizing porn use, or strippers to entertain the guys, buying and renting women. beating women.
i like the tv show psych. one man asks. how did you know she was lying. and three men laugh and yell out, .... she was a woman.
i am minding my own business, enjoying a show, and i have three men tell me, .... women always lie. fug him.
it is ... everywhere. all the time.