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MADem

(135,425 posts)
17. Naaah. I can deal with the beets. I avoid them--I don't pick them up, I don't look at them,
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 04:31 PM
Sep 2014

I walk right by them and don't even give them a passing glance.

See--"I" have the power. NOT the beets. I'm not going to allow those stupid beets--which are a tiny percentage of the total foodstuffs on offer at my grocer--to ruin my shopping experience. "I" make the decision--those beets have NO POWER OVER ME.

And again, if you don't like where the admins get their income, then SUPPLEMENT THEIRS. Buy the site out. It's real easy to tell people what they "oughta" do when they are not paying that person's bills!

Alternatively, if you think you can do better, get off the dime and do it. Fire up your own site. Make your own rules. Make an advertising deal so you can pay for the nuts-and-bolts. Hire some people to fix your gear when it breaks, that will be available around the clock. Be on guard constantly against Denial of Service attacks, troll swarms, and other fun stuff like that. Create your own reality.

The question has been asked and answered. The admins are proactive. Unless the country fires up the Internet Objectionable Speech Police, which you've said you do not support, we are where we're at. This IS a privately owned site. The owner has laid down his rules for his site. You might just want to manage your expectations--there will always be jerks who try to goad and bait. You're the one who won't get that Nirvana, at least not here--and you shouldn't expect it. As for those jerks, you've let them know that you're VERY sensitive indeed, when what you should be doing is telling them to pound sand and their hate can't touch you or bring you down.

These are pixels on a screen. They ONLY have power over you if you LET THEM.


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K/R nt NYC_SKP Sep 2014 #1
I agree. That is where my focus has been all along. boston bean Sep 2014 #2
Women generate money too BainsBane Sep 2014 #36
This insanity has got to stop. NuclearDem Sep 2014 #3
A lot of the cruel,toxic shit being spewed at Discussionist sufrommich Sep 2014 #4
Not surprising, more and more DUers are right wingers. n/t A Simple Game Sep 2014 #10
You could, of course, argue with them over there... TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #21
What should we be debating with them about? sufrommich Sep 2014 #24
+1 bahrbearian Sep 2014 #30
Don't visit that OTHER site, then. MADem Sep 2014 #15
Oh boy. NuclearDem Sep 2014 #16
Naaah. I can deal with the beets. I avoid them--I don't pick them up, I don't look at them, MADem Sep 2014 #17
I blocked MADem boston bean Sep 2014 #22
Thank you. JTFrog Sep 2014 #25
Thank you. Starry Messenger Sep 2014 #26
Wow. I just saw this BainsBane Sep 2014 #32
What if your local grocer tolerates and employs individuals who threaten rape? LanternWaste Sep 2014 #29
And if he rapes, just ignore it BainsBane Sep 2014 #33
I thought you understood they were coming over here BainsBane Sep 2014 #35
Who is this "we"? TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #20
Treasonous bastard as has been blocked as well. boston bean Sep 2014 #23
+1 bahrbearian Sep 2014 #31
When my star expires I won't be buying another one. -nt CrispyQ Sep 2014 #5
I hear you, I quit contributing some time ago. sufrommich Sep 2014 #6
Hell, I want all of my donations back at this point. Damn right there will never be another. n/t JTFrog Sep 2014 #9
I agree completely. The admins must take the initiative. This has gone too far. CTyankee Sep 2014 #7
They're like a fashion ismnotwasm Sep 2014 #8
I am completely appalled at how admin handled this. JaydenD Sep 2014 #11
I've written to both administrators BainsBane Sep 2014 #34
Own the swamp, own the mosquitos. geek tragedy Sep 2014 #12
+1 Hong Kong Cavalier Sep 2014 #28
would be a good example to set for other admins BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2014 #13
Speaking as someone who has attended various sites since the BBSs War Horse Sep 2014 #14
Regardless of who it allows to post, Discussionist should have an explicit policy against nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #18
While I agree the owners marym625 Sep 2014 #19
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2014 #27
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