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In reply to the discussion: Virginity, Violence and Male Entitlement [View all]redqueen
(115,177 posts)28. Now this, this is fantastic.
I can even manage to feel sorry for the men who empathize with Elliot, because Im sure that recognizing that part of yourself is difficult and frightening.
I cannot and will not feel sorry for them. They need to grow the fuck up already. Feminists have been begging men to stop treating us like sex objects for fucking decades. Their precious fee fees rate somewhere below a homophobe's thoughts on human sexuality on my importance meter.
Right now my priority is talking about all of the ways that women are dehumanized in our culture, and the ways that dehumanization affects us every day. I want to talk about how our culture teaches men to dominate women, and tells them that violence is the way to do this.
Sexual objectification in general, prostitution and pornography all blatantly portray women as things to be used. Even most people who know how these issues contribute to these problems mostly tiptoe around it, because society is so fucking in love with objectification and porn. Enough dancing around it.
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my son that will be back soon likes to discuss this subject.... and everything else
seabeyond
May 2014
#7
This is excellent! Personally, I am so tired of men who demand that I give them an excuse if I don't
DesertDiamond
May 2014
#4
omg... two different worlds. lol. and both... men dictating our sexuality. interesting.
seabeyond
May 2014
#23
i am so glad this woman spoke out. i make this point. every single person ignores it. women? sex?
seabeyond
May 2014
#5
i dont know if i will read rest. society sex is a taboo subject??? fuggin' for real? we obsessively
seabeyond
May 2014
#9
excellent. then david. i will continue on reading. thank you for letting me know.
seabeyond
May 2014
#12
yes. i get all that. i really do. i have been talking about it for a while now.
seabeyond
May 2014
#18
K&R. Not that all men are planning retaliation for not getting the sex they want, but
Dark n Stormy Knight
May 2014
#27