There's an asymmetrical perception issue between rural areas and big cities/metros

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9. the thing about how blacks and mexicans and immigrants and anyone non white is getting free stuff

is what it always goes back to.

if they see a minority who does well they think it was unfairly given to them and in turn taken away from a more deserving white person.

you can point to facts and there is a lot of stuff out there they can look up themselves. but as you say it goes in and out the ear .