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Coping with Divorce or Separation

elleng

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5. He has NO REASON to drag it out,

Reply to maddezmom (Reply #4)

Thu Jan 26, 2012, 10:33 PM

Jan 2012

and if I do have to go back into court, I'll do so happily, that is, I'll seek sanctions including whatever I can get. Certainly could use something to defray attorney's fees.

We discussed, with the Judge, the language we should use in the Order, and we agreed to use the language which leads to Contempt of he fails to do what he was ordered (and we had agreed.) Must say, I'm kind of excited about this. (And I have 50% in the bank, discussing where to invest with a financial advisor, so, as I've said, I've done some 'celebrating!')

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Got my first settlement check today! [View all] maddezmom Jan 2012 OP

CONGRATS, maddez! elleng Jan 2012 #1

deposited mine today maddezmom Jan 2012 #2

That really is detailed! elleng Jan 2012 #3

as you should maddezmom Jan 2012 #4

He has NO REASON to drag it out, elleng Jan 2012 #5

good on you maddezmom Jan 2012 #6

Yes, I think its control too, elleng Jan 2012 #7

I'm sorry maddezmom Jan 2012 #8

Lucky you didn't follow it! elleng Jan 2012 #9

So very glad to hear this. SheilaT Feb 2012 #10