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Bereavement

dickthegrouch

(4,041 posts)

29. Tell all the 'visitors' that you are not the executor of his will.

Reply to RSherman (Original post)

Tue Mar 14, 2023, 08:44 PM

Mar 2023

If they think he owes them money, they should seek out that person. No, you don't know who it is, sorry.

Anything after that they must put in writing.

(You then use the documents as evidence of extortion, theft, harassment, etc.)

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My friend died and his "friends" are evil [View all] RSherman Mar 2023 OP

I despise ShepKat Mar 2023 #1

His "friends" sound more like vultures. LoisB Mar 2023 #2

No kidding! calimary Mar 2023 #17

Yes I really cared RSherman Mar 2023 #23

you are a fine person Skittles Mar 2023 #30

What disgusting people! I'm so sorry your friend died thinking those ... CousinIT Mar 2023 #3

Parasites are shameless. So Sorry you have to deal those creatures. IA8IT Mar 2023 #4

It's like the body snatchers really did happen and this is the kind of alien we have to deal with. Baitball Blogger Mar 2023 #5

I'm sorry you've had these predators on top of your grief... Karadeniz Mar 2023 #6

I am sorry for the loss of your friend irisblue Mar 2023 #7

Very sorry for your troubles. My sincere condolences. Tetrachloride Mar 2023 #8

Scott knows now Marthe48 Mar 2023 #9

The most polite response to any of these leeches is "Fuck off!" Warpy Mar 2023 #10

Thank you RSherman Mar 2023 #14

You're a dear, RSherman and I'm certain Quakerfriend Mar 2023 #26

What you're describing is theft. Report it. yardwork Mar 2023 #11

I agree. 2naSalit Mar 2023 #13

+1 geardaddy Mar 2023 #35

Call the police if they are coming to your home... 2naSalit Mar 2023 #12

Exactly Rebl2 Mar 2023 #15

So very sorry, this is so tough. TNNurse Mar 2023 #16

I'm so sorry for your loss. About the guy who showed up at your house... Joinfortmill Mar 2023 #18

Our elderly friend in Arizona was so screwed over by his "friends". They wrecked his car OMGWTF Mar 2023 #19

Those are some horrible people. You're right to stay away and ignore them. C Moon Mar 2023 #20

There are just some really horrible people out there DFW Mar 2023 #21

Friends owed money Nasruddin Mar 2023 #22

If you know her name call in an elder abuse report IbogaProject Mar 2023 #24

Peole are horrible. I am sorry for your loss and hope for some sort of resolution where you can be Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #25

Scott had a mother, sister, and daughters, Demobrat Mar 2023 #27

Was there a will? cab67 Mar 2023 #28

Tell all the 'visitors' that you are not the executor of his will. dickthegrouch Mar 2023 #29

Then he claimed Scott owed him $400 and he wanted it from me!" Ray Bruns Mar 2023 #31

They cannot imagine helping people as you have helped. raging moderate Mar 2023 #32

Leeches Duncanpup Mar 2023 #33

I am so sorry for your loss. Maraya1969 Mar 2023 #34

Thank you, Everyone RSherman Mar 2023 #36

So sorry for your loss. TdeV Mar 2023 #37

I have seen this so many times. murielm99 Mar 2023 #38