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Bereavement
In reply to the discussion: Tough times [View all]Grumpy Old Guy
(3,653 posts)22. My wife had a similar story.
She lost her entire family, including her only sibling, by the time she was thirty two years old. She lost her parents two weeks apart. It was very difficult for her. All she had in life was me and the house she grew up in.
That was thirty four years ago. She is sixty six years old now, and still misses them everyday. But we kept going together and did the best we could. We raised two kids. It was rough at times, but the good times far outweigh the bad. We learned to keep the grief in a small box within our hearts. Sometimes it spills out and hurts all over again, but most days we keep it locked away where it belongs.
I hope this helps. Keep going, and try to be strong.
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I feel so bad for you. I lost my mom over 30 years ago, I was 39 I still cry sometimes
Walleye
Nov 2021
#2
After several calls from Hospice, I finally called them 6 months after the death of my Mom.
beveeheart
Nov 2021
#24
I don't blame myself...but just question whether she could have fought back.
Drunken Irishman
Nov 2021
#29
I went through a similar situation, my mom passed three months ago, my dad many years ago
Escurumbele
Nov 2021
#25
Thank you. It was a long time ago. Daily life is easier, but I still tear up at times. I hope
GPV
Nov 2021
#60
You know, the grief never goes away, but trust me, son, you learn to live with it because...
NNadir
Nov 2021
#46
I, too, had to make the decision to put my mom in hospice. She lasted two weeks. She passed on 7
alwaysinasnit
Nov 2021
#49
Awwwww, sweetie, I'm so sorry about this. So sorry about this struggle you have to face.
calimary
Nov 2021
#55