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Marthe48

(19,507 posts)
16. I think we are seeing each other
Tue Jan 26, 2021, 12:32 PM
Jan 2021

I dreamed of him 3 nights in a row last week, after a long break. I remember we were in the kitchen and he picked up a bottle of pepper-infused olive oil to put on his food. In the dream I thought, 'he doesn't like spices that much.' When I woke up, I was thinking of that dream, realized my daughter just got me that olive oil in November.

My sister's husband had an aunt who was psychic. She told us that people who were traumatized when they passed needed to heal on the other side. As time went on, I dreamed of John as very ill, but he gradually looked healthier and healthier in the dreams, till it seemed like he was his old self. The dreams last week, he was well in the first one, then the next night, I dreamed he had to go to the hospital. When I woke up, I had to assure myself that I wasn't reliving his illness. Then I wondered if souls can be sick. The third night, he was home with me, but that dream left me with questions about myself, that I am chewing on.

If it is a visitation, I hope he will go on, and be where he can enjoy being a soul. I read a book called Waiting for the Galactic Bus, and really embraced the author's view of life after death.

Thank you for posting

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It does take time. safeinOhio Jan 2021 #1
I wish you well Botany Jan 2021 #2
The wine dark sea Marthe48 Jan 2021 #17
You are clearly very brave and very strong. I have no useful advice, just a (((((Marthe48))))). niyad Jan 2021 #3
Thank you :) Marthe48 Jan 2021 #18
Much love to you. redwitch Jan 2021 #4
Always glad when i hear stories like this Marthe48 Jan 2021 #19
Make a shrine to him SheltieLover Jan 2021 #5
Good idea... Karadeniz Jan 2021 #9
oh, SheltieLover Marthe48 Jan 2021 #20
It's tough, but you will eventually move on and not have memories dominate your life. Frustratedlady Jan 2021 #6
I changed bedrooms and other things Marthe48 Jan 2021 #21
My former boyfriend died suddenly in Oct Wawannabe Jan 2021 #7
My deepest sympathy to you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #22
However you manage to get through this TNNurse Jan 2021 #8
I lost my dad when I was 20 Marthe48 Jan 2021 #23
When my died died there were three of us at home TNNurse Jan 2021 #26
It is hard for people to understand Marthe48 Jan 2021 #29
One has to wonder if those were dreams or visitations... Karadeniz Jan 2021 #10
I think we are seeing each other Marthe48 Jan 2021 #16
They say the differences between dreams and visitations are that visitations are much clearer and Karadeniz Jan 2021 #40
I think everyone that loses a loved one like you shares the same pain. cstanleytech Jan 2021 #11
I do better if someone is really old Marthe48 Jan 2021 #30
Wishing you sweet memories of your beloved husband. Danmel Jan 2021 #12
Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #24
It's not always easy to accept death as a part of life. Harker Jan 2021 #13
No it doesn't Marthe48 Jan 2021 #25
My experience with grief is that it never goes away, but... NNadir Jan 2021 #14
Better to have loved and lost Marthe48 Jan 2021 #27
Your post contains a lot of hope, Marthe. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #15
Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #28
My heart goes out to you Kimber432 Jan 2021 #31
Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #32
Dear Martha48 gademocrat7 Jan 2021 #33
Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #37
The fourth anniversary of my wife's death is a month away central scrutinizer Jan 2021 #34
I am sorry for your loss Marthe48 Jan 2021 #38
maybe instead of putting pics away- mopinko Jan 2021 #35
Sending you love and peace... Freedomofspeech Jan 2021 #36
Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #39
So sorry for your pain but I completely understand. littlemissmartypants Jan 2021 #41
I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 Jan 2021 #42
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