losing my mom was bad enough . . .

[DollyM]

6. She did have a will and I am executor

She did have a Will and I am executor. Probably part of the problem, they are both extremely jealous that she and I were very close and she put me in charge. It just hurts so much to have to deal with all these accusations when I am grieving over the loss of my best friend. They are just grieving over the loss of money obviously. My middle brother has decided he is going to buy her house, which has caused me a great of distress after the way he treated her. So I have also been processing the loss of my mom's home, knowing I will never go in there again. (My brother was very abusive to me growing up and we have no relationship other than him being totally horrid and hateful to me). My brother came to my house a couple of nights ago and announced he was buying the house and he wanted my mom's animals out now, that those were my problem. So I am trying to blend three more cats and a dog into my house with my three cats. THere is a lot of hissing going on here.