Update on Belladonna

[cate94]

5. I understand your anger and frustration

with your neighbors. I hope that you are feeling some relief that they have moved.

Belladonna doesn't know that you didn't abandon her when the neighbors kept her. She doesn't know you tried to find her. She only knows that life with people has been unpredictable. The fact that she ran away from you doesn't mean anything except that she was freaked out when she saw you approaching.. You disappeared before! Whether she was lost or abducted -now she doesn't trust you. I don't think that means you are absolved of responsibility. It only means Belladonna is afraid.

I'm sorry for all that you have been through. It is rough. I hope that this resolves in a manner that is good for both you and the cat.