My dad died this afternoon.

[NuttyFluffers]

29. :( my belated condolences

been away. so sorry to hear.

it's sad when circumstances seem to conspire and rob us of precious together time. it's hard to understand why, and perhaps there never will be a real reason.

i had to console friends who desperately try to be present for the dying breath that we will never know the hour or the day when our loved ones pass. but this seems so... temporal, easily within human power to change. your unease seems right in my eyes.

but can anything be done? will raising hell be the better solution? or perhaps a private after ceremony where the whole family can be together? i cannot answer that.

however, if you can imagine your father suffused in light and love, wanting to bring peace to those loved ones he's now physically separated, what solution and words of comfort would he give at this situation? let him speak into your heart the right response to this.