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[mntleo2]

4. Good for you, FWWM!

I have come to the same conclusion. Why waste my time with people who will not listen to me? This is *not* love, it is just imposing a bunch of stuff on you that you are not instead of listening to who you really are. Some of the most painful and hurtful things came about, even in my own family, because I hoped they had heard instead of facing the fact that they did not hear ~ nor did they want to hear ~ a single thing I tried to tell them. It has always been a BIG mistake to allow it and has only resulted in heartbreak beyond anything bearable. Much as you may long it isn't so, sometimes it is better to keep to your principals rather than "compromise" your heart to a bunch of people who do not give a damn about you or who you are, they only "care" when you are who THEY fantasize you to be.

Love, Cat in Seattle