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IronLionZion

(49,011 posts)
10. I've experienced some of the same
Tue Apr 3, 2018, 05:30 PM
Apr 2018

I've also dated Muslim women and black women. Black women they can deal with since we have several in our family now. But Muslim got me threats of violence and all sorts of weird projections from their own fears and fantasies.

If it's friends, sometimes you have to let people go and find better friends. The same needs to happen with relatives. Immediate family can be difficult but if they see that you are in a serious relationship they may eventually come to accept it even if they don't support it. And if they don't, then you can still accept that some people are going to think nasty thoughts and you don't have to care what they think or say.

There are plenty of like-minded and friendly folks out there to build your own supportive friends. Friends of the family don't necessarily have to be your friends.

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Thank you Daxter Apr 2018 #11
you don't need bigots like that in your life Skittles Apr 2018 #3
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good for her Skittles Apr 2018 #17
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:) Daxter Apr 2018 #14
I'm glad you have a relationship with a wonderful woman who brings you happiness. NBachers Apr 2018 #8
People pass judgement out of ignorance Daxter Apr 2018 #15
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If only everyone treated others the way you do Daxter Apr 2018 #16
I've experienced some of the same IronLionZion Apr 2018 #10
People threatening you for dating a Muslim woman is deplorable Daxter Apr 2018 #18
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