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Marthe48

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Wed Aug 30, 2023, 10:37 AM Aug 2023

My friend tripped on rough pavement and fell Sunday [View all]

I went to stay with her Monday and Tues. She is bruised from head to foot, had to have stitches in both knees. She is a trasnplant survivor, and takes care of herself. I felt like she was recovering from the fall, and the injuries. She had an appt. with her regular dr. yesterday, and I drove her to that. He was noncommital about her injuries, but will take the stitches out in about 10-12 days.

I am appalled that no one helped her when she fell. She got up on her own, and had blood on her face and legs, scrapes on hands and arms. She went in to the restaurant she was planning to have lunch at, and patched herself up. The staff gave her some tape. Other than that, no help. She drove herself to the hospital. She walked through the hospital, and no one gave her any assistance. She was finally put in a cubicle, so she wasn't exposed to ill people (the anti-rejection drugs make her very vulnerable to infection). She was in e.r. for 14 hours. She called her neighbors and they really stepped up to the plate. They drover her car home and then drove her home when she was released from e.r. at 2 a.m. My friend and I are in our 70s. The helpful neighbors are in their 70s. Maybe my friend just had bad luck that there wasn't a good Samaritan around. By the time I saw her Monday, she looked like she'd been hit by a bus, but even on Sunday, had I seen a stranger bleeding and hurt, I would've stopped to help. At least ask if they needed help. She would have helped someone in her situation.





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... Faux pas Aug 2023 #1
I hope she gets better, disgusting that no one help Walleye Aug 2023 #2
Thank you Marthe48 Aug 2023 #3
Maddening blm Aug 2023 #4
Seems a certain generation is willing to step in and help with Polly Hennessey Aug 2023 #5
Yikes. That's awful. Where did this happen? Scrivener7 Aug 2023 #6
west side of Cleveland Marthe48 Aug 2023 #8
Hope she has contacted multigraincracker Aug 2023 #7
She will Marthe48 Aug 2023 #9
I'm horrified that no one helped her. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #10
I feel for you Marthe48 Sep 2023 #11
Broken toes, at least the ones I've had, are pretty trivial. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #12
All good news Marthe48 Sep 2023 #13
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