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Marthe48

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Sat Sep 21, 2024, 09:15 PM Sep 2024

We've been friends 67 years [View all]

Now, through a series of injuries, on top of long time chronic health conditions, she is in bad shape, probably dying. She got a kidney transplant 5 years ago and was doing well. Last year, she fell, and got stitches in both knees. In Nov, she twisted her arm and the dialysis port which was still in place failed, cut off circulation. The e.r. dr. farted around 8 hours trying to figure out why there was no circ. By the time she got surgery, the whole arm, hand fingers were in jeopardy. The vascular surgeon saved all but half of her little finger and the very tips of 2 others. She was in the hospital almost 3 weeks, and got home rehab for 3 weeks. She was supposed to go to a rehab center for outpatient sessions, but winter in Northern Oh discouraged her. So next step down was getting bedsores. And in spite of treatment, they are out of control. She went to a wound center most of May, June and July. Then hospital for surgery, where she was diagnosed with a staph infection, now rehab, where so far, she's fallen, she's gotten a uti, and more wounds. The wounds may be a symptom of a worse condition. My friend is in pain, suffering, hasn't been eating, drinking, so her kidney function is in jeopardy. The rehab staff talked to her this week about hospice. I'm here most weekends seeing my friend, keeping her cat company. I don't expect my friend to recover and it's so sad.

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We've been friends 67 years [View all] Marthe48 Sep 2024 OP
sending hugs Tumbulu Sep 2024 #1
I'm so sorry to hear this. Her experiences remind me of my mom's sinkingfeeling Sep 2024 #2
So sorry to hear this, it's so hard. we can do it Sep 2024 #3
I'm so sorry, Marthe48. Diamond_Dog Sep 2024 #4
I'm so sorry. barbtries Sep 2024 #5
Wish the best outcome for you both. Hugs. Srkdqltr Sep 2024 #6
Oh my.... Bayard Sep 2024 #7
Sending ((hugs)) KarenS Sep 2024 #8
This is so sad for her. Good thoughts to you both and so glad shes had her old Karadeniz Sep 2024 #9
So very sorry. PittBlue Sep 2024 #10
That really hurts. So sad for you both. efhmc Sep 2024 #11
Yikes! 2naSalit Sep 2024 #12
I'm sad to hear this and send you and your friend hugs. summer_in_TX Sep 2024 #13
I'm sorry to hear about your friend having to go through this. calimary Sep 2024 #14
I'm not the only one Marthe48 Sep 2024 #16
I am so sorry. I will pray for her and for you. You are indeed a good friend. LoisB Sep 2024 #15
Thanks DUers Marthe48 Sep 2024 #17
Your friend has suffered so much. It's difficult to hear. Joinfortmill Sep 2024 #18
I'm so so sorry XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #19
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