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HeartsCanHope

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11. So sorry, Siwsan, for everything.
Sat Jul 20, 2024, 09:43 PM
Jul 2024

None of this is in any way your fault, and I feel it was cruel of your relative to blame you on top of your devastating loss. Sometimes things just happen. Some people aren't able to accept that and blame others to give themselves someone to be angry with so they can focus on that rather than feel the sorrow and pain inside. She shouldn't have said what she said. She's done a lot of damage to not only any sort relationship with you, but also everyone in your family. I feel very sorry for her husband. Hugs, my friend. I'm so sorry she hurt you. You are a good and loving mom. Take care of yourself and those precious kidcats.

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Such a loss when we lose one of them montanacowboy Jul 2024 #1
Hugs. 🫶🏻 You and your babies are in my thoughts. onecaliberal Jul 2024 #2
❤️ littlemissmartypants Jul 2024 #3
I hope you are OK, Siwsan. elleng Jul 2024 #4
The boys, especially Arthur, have been super affectionate, today Siwsan Jul 2024 #6
When my last cat passed on I swear I would see her for about a week in the corner of my eye kimbutgar Jul 2024 #15
Ah man ALBliberal Jul 2024 #5
Good to Hear from You PikaBlue Jul 2024 #7
Thank you Siwsan Jul 2024 #9
What? MerrilyMerrily Jul 2024 #13
Wonderful memories, Siwsan. Hang on to them... hlthe2b Jul 2024 #8
All will be good, Siwsan. Sian left you wonderful memories Polly Hennessey Jul 2024 #10
So sorry, Siwsan, for everything. HeartsCanHope Jul 2024 #11
Siwsan, so glad you checked MacKasey Jul 2024 #12
I completely understand Laurelin Jul 2024 #14
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