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Doc Sportello

(7,962 posts)
6. You're right we don't get to pick our ancestors
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 02:00 PM
Jan 2023

That's why I don't really get why people are proud because they have an ancestor who accomplished this or that. For all we know they may have been successful in business but a horrible person otherwise. All we as descendants can do is try to understand history and keep on pointing the way away from racism, greed and dominion that many in past generations relied on to conquer and control. It's diffferent of course for more recent relatives who may have done good or bad, despite knowing much of what we know now.

I have researched my own patrilineal descent beginning in Gettysburg in the 1700s and found in his will that our first ancestor here bequeathed a "slave girl" to his wife. As the Scots-Irish so often did, the younger sons who didn't inherit much made their way south, where one fought for the Confederacy. Like your story the prospects declined over the centuries and most were working class or middle class. I haven't found evidence they owned enslaved people but if they didn't I would think that is more due to their lack of affluence.

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So I'm not the only one here with a slave keeping ancestor Walleye Jan 2023 #1
My father's folks came before the revolution. Chainfire Jan 2023 #4
That's quite an interesting history, a true American Tune Walleye Jan 2023 #5
Hi neighbor, I grew up about 20 miles west of you in MD. beveeheart Jan 2023 #13
Elkton, Cecil county maybe? We're probably related Walleye Jan 2023 #17
Queen Anne's County beveeheart Jan 2023 #24
And look at the family progress! leftieNanner Jan 2023 #2
He probably wouldn't like me talking to damn Yankees! Chainfire Jan 2023 #20
What a story, a true rise and fall epic. brush Jan 2023 #3
You're right we don't get to pick our ancestors Doc Sportello Jan 2023 #6
All I know is my grandparents from Russia were assholes housecat Jan 2023 #7
They didn't get to pick us, either. Thank goodness for that Warpy Jan 2023 #8
From an article that I read about my GGF, I don't believe that he was religious. Chainfire Jan 2023 #21
Ha! My ancestors never developed a taste for farming Warpy Jan 2023 #22
My great-great grandfather was a slave overseer. RipVanWinkle Jan 2023 #9
There's a historical marker on the road through my little home town. jaxexpat Jan 2023 #10
I have Confederate ancestors too. ananda Jan 2023 #11
My grandma on my Dad's side warned about horse thieves & bandits. GentryDixon Jan 2023 #12
Sad DownriverDem Jan 2023 #14
My uncle searched for an ancestor who did not buy his way out TNNurse Jan 2023 #15
Three G-G-Grandfathers and Seven G-G-Great Uncles RustyWheels Jan 2023 #16
The farm I grew up on was partially acreage my ancestor twodogsbarking Jan 2023 #18
My mother's father appleannie1 Jan 2023 #19
Family history is intensely interesting GeoWilliam750 Jan 2023 #23
I remember how shocked I was beveeheart Jan 2023 #25
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