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DebJ

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2. Hi Peggy. The problem is that in the hospital, 'his' doctor has no say and is never consulted.
Sun Aug 23, 2015, 12:44 AM
Aug 2015

I couldn't believe it the first time I found out that's how they do things in (at least some) wards. It's like having an ob/gyn for 9 months who is intimately familiar with a troubled pregnancy. You go into labor, and your ob/gyn isn't there. You pass on to the ob/gyn at your side the information about your pregnancy, and she says "Oh, no, that isn't relevant at all, anything that doctor said. We are going to start from scratch."

I did just call the nurse on the ward again...so i spoke to a nurse on every shift today. I mentioned that they always strip him of all of his meds and make him worse, and always say this is because for some reason the doctors orders were not sent to the pharmacy, and I want to insure that never happens again.

She told me to start notifying the hospital at admissions, and to keep calling the ward until there is no doubt everyone has the info and is applying that.

She also told me she is marking all of his records right now to NOT give him another dose in the morning, which is what was keeping me from sleeping tonight. (It's 1:36 am here). So, now I can sleep.

I told her that if he gets a second dose of Celexa, they may find they have 7' of dangerous man, 400 lbs of him, on their hands, and that he could smile one minute and then in 15 seconds ramp from zero to 200. That is very true... I saw that happen with him on Prozac... the worst of all the SSRI's he took, and I believe every news story I've ever read about Prozac... and so I think for their OWN safety no one is going to be in a hurry to give him that in the morning.

He was so out of it this evening that he didn't know what he had had for dinner he had just finished eating 10 minutes before, and that has never, ever happened to him, ever, not in decades of battling this issue. His girlfriend said he just looked totally insane, and he's not been that way...except for SSRI's...and they stripped him of his mood stabilizer that had been so very effective for so long.

But the nurse told me there are no med changes filed by the doctor after he got my message today. When I called at 8pm, the afternoon nurse told me she had advised the doctor of this, but he had been doing rounds and was only just then doing his paperwork. But it is 1:40 am, and nothing. He did NOTHING. I guess I'm driving to Maryland tomorrow.

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I have no idea, but perhaps you should talk to his doctor. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2015 #1
Hi Peggy. The problem is that in the hospital, 'his' doctor has no say and is never consulted. DebJ Aug 2015 #2
I am so sorry to hear this. What a mess. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2015 #3
No, this is a very one-off experience steve2470 Aug 2015 #4
thank you so much steve DebJ Aug 2015 #8
Steve, I'm going to contact hospital admin regarding what I wrote DebJ Aug 2015 #13
sounds good steve2470 Aug 2015 #14
That's not been my experience. Tobin S. Aug 2015 #5
Sounds like malpractice to me, elleng Aug 2015 #6
sounds extremely dangerous to me. and as others have said- malpractice. mopinko Aug 2015 #7
Thanks mopinko. Yep, warrior mom. Someone has to be, because people needing this type DebJ Aug 2015 #12
The hospital took my psych meds Peace Seeker Aug 2015 #9
Same for you Annette. DebJ Aug 2015 #10
Thank you for all the support. Here is an update, and some lessons learned. DebJ Aug 2015 #11
on my phone. will write more later, but mopinko Aug 2015 #15
your posts sounds like something from 100 years ago. mopinko Aug 2015 #16
...not 100 years sadly... not even half a century... not even a decade in some places. hunter Aug 2015 #18
Update: Bad news. He went horribly manic, just like I said he would. DebJ Aug 2015 #17
. hunter Aug 2015 #19
well, when it takes that long you know your ekg was fine. mopinko Aug 2015 #20
He has an appointment with his regular guy the 31st. DebJ Aug 2015 #22
Something is terribly wrong with this hospital (gross medical malpractice and incompetence) steve2470 Aug 2015 #21
Thanks Steve. I did take some action today, actually. DebJ Aug 2015 #23
may I ask about the current status ? steve2470 Sep 2015 #24
Hi Steve. Thanks for asking. DebJ Sep 2015 #25
Yes and no. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2015 #26
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