Not sure if I'm a loner or shy to the point of it being a disability.

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3. I always focus on others thoughts, ideas, ambitions, etc.

My Dad always told me I cared too much, and I do ..... knowing the problems of others and not being able to help bothers me, a lot. But I'm thrilled for them when good things in life happen.

I've had a life filled with many things I wouldn't wish on anyone, so no ... I don't talk about that much. I don't like making others feel bad. There are better things to talk about. Laughter! is something that helps me more than anything, and I've found a group of people who are not only compassionate, smart, adventurous, but also hilarious to be around, and that works for me.

I'm not sure if your post was directed to me, or the OP. If not me, sorry.