College age child with depression, anxiety and stress

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6. I have a perfectionistic daughter, as well

She lived at home while going to college, also. She got to where she took fewer classes than a full load - to reduce her stress. She graduated with a double major after 8 years (and after having to withdraw mid-semester for medical reasons - depression - at least 2 different times).

I understand the difficulty as a parent / mother with a daughter who has high expectations for herself and is not meeting them. She also becomes suicidal from time to time and it is very upsetting to me - and yet I have to stay calm, etc.

While my daughter did try anti-depressants for awhile - and they did help her - I am the one who has stayed on them - because I recognize my own need.

Best wishes with your journey.