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HereSince1628

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20. Someone else is welcome to take on a new petition, I won't soon do it.
Sun Mar 10, 2013, 11:45 AM
Mar 2013

There are a handful of reasons why.

1) The rules of petitioning for new groups remain unknown and seem unknowable--

a. two months ago when I used the 'help' function, the admin never responded. Advice came from other DUers in much the same way as jury comments--collectively they were incoherent and contradictory recommendations of how it was done back in the good ol days.

b. this past week, as the new ATA went active, I asked again, and again I got no response, although this time I was certain that Skinner had seen the request as he answered that deleting groups was more a priority.


2) It's unclear to me where a petition should even be posted to receive recs.. It should be posted where people who would respond positively to it could see it and reply in support of it--

a) It could be posted in MHSG and there it might get the mystery level of support. But, if only MHSG supports the petition it seems that there is less need for a new group and more need for a rebranding / repurposing of MHSG.

b) Posting it in GD means subjecting the petition to significant mischievous traffic. A petition isn't a debate. Non-support of a petition doesn't require a comment, but everything in GD attracts contrarian commentary--orthogonality is a major feature of GD.


3) I am not a star member, so I'm in a disadvantaged position to be asking the Admin for favors.

4) The adventure of blazing a trail through uncharted wilderness to discover and by chance fulfill the still and as yet unspecified requirements for petitioning a new group, isn't for me.


I wave my interest in that effort to someone with more persistence in the face of passive dismissal. Having my effort ignored and finally sent into offline oblivion isn't good for me (Skinner has already answered in ATA to another poster's question about access to archived Meta with a "your fucked" statement).

Personal futility triggers the worst of my symptoms. Ending up feeling like a fool at the end of fool's errand puts me in a very bad space. My higher functioning modality can intellectualize that distress as a distortion caused by pathological sensitivity, but when I'm triggered I can't reach high functioning.

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I asked Skinner this. [View all] Neoma Mar 2013 OP
No because he is seeking to combine the groups BainsBane Mar 2013 #1
Well, whoever started that thread in meta should come around and claim ground. Neoma Mar 2013 #2
I do think it was Heresince libodem Mar 2013 #3
Can't comment in Ask the admins. Neoma Mar 2013 #4
I suppose the one customer at the counter libodem Mar 2013 #7
I try not to fight. Neoma Mar 2013 #9
Me either libodem Mar 2013 #11
I don't lack debate skills... Neoma Mar 2013 #12
by he I meant Skinner BainsBane Mar 2013 #6
I'll Du Mail Heresince1868 then. Neoma Mar 2013 #10
see this BainsBane Mar 2013 #13
maybe message heresince and fwwm fizzgig Mar 2013 #5
Well yes, the information group would need some safe rules. Neoma Mar 2013 #8
we'll need more hosts in either situation fizzgig Mar 2013 #15
Go back to that thread I made and see convo. Neoma Mar 2013 #17
i saw that fizzgig Mar 2013 #18
I wrote and posted the petition in meta and sent a PM to the Admin to draw their attention to it HereSince1628 Mar 2013 #14
you bring up all manner of things i had not considered fizzgig Mar 2013 #16
I voted "no." hunter Mar 2013 #19
Someone else is welcome to take on a new petition, I won't soon do it. HereSince1628 Mar 2013 #20
... How about the Welcome & Help forum? Neoma Mar 2013 #21
Lost my post with the crash...anyway, Maybe that's the place HereSince1628 Mar 2013 #22
understandable BainsBane Mar 2013 #23
what appears to be a similar group was just approved fizzgig Mar 2013 #24
Yes, that's ours BainsBane Mar 2013 #25
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