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OldBaldy1701E

(8,101 posts)
18. By the by...
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 10:40 AM
Oct 2023

I contacted my representative last month because the lawyer who was handling my second attempt at trying to get either Social Security Disability or Supplementary Income suggested that I do so, as she proved to be too busy making money from clients who had easy to win cases rather than one which is going to require some effort. I received my reply around the 2nd of Oct. They looked into the matter and found out that I was denied both. I am disabled, they all agree on that. However, my husband, who was working part time for the same company that eradicated his entire department one month after we went into COVID lockdown and then had to go back there to be a member of the team that he used to be manager of, makes (MADE) too much money. Which is a complete joke. So, after ten years of not working (I did some gigs here and there) and various physical and mental ailments (that we all agree exist and have effectively ended my performance career), now they are pulling the old corporate bullshit to dump the guy who they have to actually pay a decent wage because of his massive experience and skill. (He is not alone in this plot, as they seem to be targeting a few of the 'old guard' that are still there after the massive shuffle they did by removing that department. They effectively released something like 3000 people that day.) This will leave us in pretty bad straits. I am in Minnesota, which has a great social assistance setup. They are the only reason I am alive right now, to be honest. However, there is no help for surviving in today's economy because what little social safety net we have left in this country is being destroyed by greedy politicians and oligarchs and if one is not a Soros or a Rockefeller, then one is S.O.L.. This is a time when I am beyond frustrated and angry because I cannot do anything to fix this and I do not know anyone who can offer any real help.

I am sorry, but it is either vent here or run screaming through the streets.

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Looks like we are done. [View all] OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 OP
Please don't go. Your husband needs you. AllyCat Oct 2023 #1
Please call 988 madaboutharry Oct 2023 #2
We need you, your husband needs you! Bluethroughu Oct 2023 #3
It is my husband who worked for that sandwich company. OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #19
You are collectable. We need you in this, even if it's armchair warrior. Bluethroughu Oct 2023 #23
As others have said, please call 988 COL Mustard Oct 2023 #4
There must be a way to feed this story, and the millions more like it, ariadne0614 Oct 2023 #5
By the by... OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #18
There's no reason to be sorry-- I welcome your assessment of the situation. ariadne0614 Oct 2023 #22
Don't give up. mzmolly Oct 2023 #24
That's what I thought Marthe48 Oct 2023 #25
Well, it did. (N/t) OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #26
Reach out for legal advice. mzmolly Oct 2023 #27
I have had one both times. Did not help. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #29
I'm very sorry. mzmolly Oct 2023 #30
There is help out there. Calling 988 could get you someone who knows how to find it. Maraya1969 Oct 2023 #6
talk to us Skittles Oct 2023 #7
Holding you in light and love. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as niyad Oct 2023 #8
Hang in there Marthe48 Oct 2023 #9
Please wait till tomorrow. Please call 988. irisblue Oct 2023 #10
Yes Chi67 Oct 2023 #11
I hear you, I do, but I think you might be wrong... Joinfortmill Oct 2023 #12
So sorry DownriverDem Oct 2023 #13
I care & other people care. area51 Oct 2023 #14
As others have said, please call for help. brer cat Oct 2023 #15
I wish I could post my phone number I would try to help You bonniebgood Oct 2023 #16
You've reminded me that I need to go upstairs today and dig out my 'Rime of the Ancient Mariner' 70sEraVet Oct 2023 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author LastLiberal in PalmSprings Oct 2023 #20
"I am sorry, but it is either vent here or run screaming through the streets." ratchiweenie Oct 2023 #21
So, a bit of an update. OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #28
I'll never get any lower than my lowest point in life 'cause any lower I'd be dead. hunter Oct 2023 #31
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