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bucolic_frolic

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4. Make yourself a good cup of tea and take the afternoon one hour at a time
Sun Jan 15, 2023, 01:44 PM
Jan 2023

Try to find something you can find some pleasure in - music, a tv show, some cookies - and get some good feelings from them.

Try to be thankful for something you do have but that has become underappreciated. Maybe a comfortable chair, the heating bills paid, being warm and dry during a storm.

Sometimes outside sources do not help. We need to rebalance our perspective on the smallest of things in our own environment.

I've had chronic pain, and it seems to me emotional pain is much the same. Taking the excruciating parts one moment at a time helps.

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(((((Dark!))))) SheltieLover Jan 2023 #1
Thanks, Sheltie. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #12
Yw SheltieLover Jan 2023 #13
First, a hug for you Wicked Blue Jan 2023 #2
Thank you for the comparisonate reply. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #14
Ps - avoid contact with crazymakers & find new hobbies? SheltieLover Jan 2023 #3
Make yourself a good cup of tea and take the afternoon one hour at a time bucolic_frolic Jan 2023 #4
Thanks for your kind words. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #15
Even small amounts of exercise will help. TdeV Jan 2023 #5
Thank you. I've had water exercise, swimming, etc. reccommended to me Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #16
I guess it depends on your priorities. TdeV Jan 2023 #18
It's more the fact of the depression making everything Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #21
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I have read ketamine can bring relief right away Stargleamer Jan 2023 #7
I have been putting.my hopes on Ketamine for about 20 years now, Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #19
Yes, I have felt that way MadameButterfly Jan 2023 #27
I have called what is now 988 several times I this last few years and.. Anon-C Jan 2023 #8
Coming here is like walking in to a room ggma Jan 2023 #11
ggma, that's sweet. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #23
Your response? ggma Jan 2023 #25
Back atcha! Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #38
I'm sorry for your pain. Being human can be a struggle. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #20
The VA's Veteran Crisis Line is EXCELLENT ! Bluejeans Jan 2023 #9
I'm not a vet, but thanks. I assume this was meant for the vet who Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #24
You have a lot to deal with right now. yardwork Jan 2023 #10
Thanks. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #22
Hugs yardwork Jan 2023 #26
You're sure needing to dig deep. JudyM Jan 2023 #28
I appreciate your thoughtful reply. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #37
You actually seem very "together" to me hamsterjill Jan 2023 #29
Thanks for the reply. I think I get your point. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #36
Are there any bereavement groups in your area? Rhiannon12866 Jan 2023 #30
Thanks for taking the time to share & empathize, Rhiannon. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #35
'...I am too broken to be fixed.' OldBaldy1701E Jan 2023 #31
Thanks for the well wishes. 💗 Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #34
Absolutely share the sense of being too broken to be fixed. intheflow Jan 2023 #32
I'm glad you've got your four-legged friends enriching your life. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2023 #33
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