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Mental Health Support

Sanity Claws

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2. Maybe she has memory problems

Reply to Not Heidi (Original post)

Sun Nov 27, 2022, 08:40 PM

Nov 2022

Maybe she said it in her own mind and not aloud. Maybe she said something when you were already out of earshot.
If you have been married a while and she seems to be doing what you called gaslighting only recently, whatever happened was probably unintentional. Unintentional misunderstandings happen all the time.

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Gaslight? May I talk about this? [View all] Not Heidi Nov 2022 OP

Minor irritating misunderstanding/change of mind. elleng Nov 2022 #1

Maybe she has memory problems Sanity Claws Nov 2022 #2

My thought, too. 3Hotdogs Nov 2022 #4

I use imagination training with music Tetrachloride Nov 2022 #3

I swear and use profanity a lot... BigmanPigman Nov 2022 #5

I find marijuana to be very helpful in situations like this, helps me keep a sense of humor Canoe52 Nov 2022 #6

Second. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Nov 2022 #7

This message was self-deleted by its author Duppers Nov 2022 #8