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Scalded Nun

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8. It is a long struggle and can be compounded my misdiagnosing
Wed Aug 10, 2022, 01:58 PM
Aug 2022

We have a history of it. Our granddaughter was misdiagnosed for years when younger (ADHD), later corrected to autism. I believe I am autistic, but have never been tested for it, recognize many of the symptoms and struggled with many things my entire life. Our son (temporal lobe epilepsy) also misdiagnosed early on (ADHD). We believe also undiagnosed autistic. It is a daily struggle for so many, and the 'System' makes it so difficult to get the proper diagnosis. Then the battle for disability and treatment. And once you have traversed that nightmare you have to be careful so as not to jeopardize your status. The constant battle to just maintain your status continues if you are in a red state. Coming out the other end of that gauntlet can so easily leave one beaten down, depressed and spent with feelings of worthlessness and self-loathing. Do not let others define who you are, keep up the good fight and never forget that you are worth it.

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About my official SS disability [View all] Not Heidi Aug 2022 OP
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It is a long struggle and can be compounded my misdiagnosing Scalded Nun Aug 2022 #8
Nun, thank you. Not Heidi Aug 2022 #10
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Ty! XanaDUer2 Aug 2022 #17
It kinda did take five months . . . Not Heidi Aug 2022 #18
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Ps oh yeah, I'm saying I'm retired XanaDUer2 Aug 2022 #12
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I think its sick I_UndergroundPanther Sep 2022 #21
+100 Not Heidi Sep 2022 #23
Making money is the only identity that this country recognizes. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #25
how are you feeling? Nt XanaDUer2 Sep 2022 #22
In general, and all things considered, I'm ok. Not Heidi Sep 2022 #24
Good for you. I'm a former SSA Disability Examiner/Adjudicator. As a former nurse it seemed Ziggysmom Sep 2022 #26
Wow. Thank you for your perspective. Not Heidi Oct 2022 #27
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