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In reply to the discussion: Got some good news today! Equals Glamrock's a piece of shit. [View all]I_UndergroundPanther
(12,988 posts)You reached out to me when I was thinking about dying and then loneliness threatened to swallow me whole.
You were there..unlike so many people I knew who are too busy to check in and say hi.
I know the issues with your mom are hard as shit. But know this you are an awesome human being. Just talking to you made my heart heal.
And most of all you truly care.
My mom had a slow decline and her little sister took excellent care of her. After a few years I could see the stress on her. We decided together to give my aunt a break after xmas.
My mom temporarily went to a care home for 2 days.
She died there. I think she died there than rather hurt her sister and traumatize her. I think she was aware at some level family was there and she didn't want to go while we were there.
My mom was a kind person and this I think was her choice because she loved us even though she had supra nuclear palsy and dementia.She chose to die when we wouldn't watch her go.
Even to the end she cared.
To be able to help others you need to accept you have limits like everybody on earth does. Love yourself and know somewhere deep inside she knows and can accept your limits and wants you to have a life.
In my heart, I know first hand you are a good person,Glam.
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