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In reply to the discussion: This just flat out sucks [View all]Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)43. big hug, Glam
lost my mom to stroke, my birth-mom to ovarian cancer, MIL to Parkinson's in a six year period.
Slow and lingering, quick and unexpected, makes no difference. It's Mama, and Mama's gone.
"The guilt associated with a thankfulness that your mother is deteriorating" is grief, Glam. It starts before we lose them. They teach us everything except how to live without them.
Grief is the highest honor we have for our moms. All that love with no place to go.
another hug.
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Hon, we are with you. Don't you worry about bringing down anyone's day. xo
CurtEastPoint
Feb 2022
#1
My mom lingered on for over a year after Hospice said she would die and I remember wanting it to be
Maraya1969
Feb 2022
#12
Be easy on yourslf. Your thoughts are normal and just thoughts. Been, not exactly there, but
c-rational
Feb 2022
#19
I took care of my mother as she died from a brain tumor. I can therefore say I don't know what...
NNadir
Feb 2022
#20
I'm sorry for your plight, and sorry for not having anything profound or helpful to offer.
BobTheSubgenius
Feb 2022
#23
that is what I would want if it were me. that and maybe a small revolver left where
demigoddess
Feb 2022
#26
I am so sorry. All you can do is the best you can. If you are asking yourself the questions, you
LoisB
Feb 2022
#41
I am so sorry, Lewy Body sucks. It sounds like she's thinking about food, stocking up before the war
uppityperson
Feb 2022
#52
My mom's deterioration was long and slow... 9 years in the "memory care" unit.
3Hotdogs
Feb 2022
#58
My dad had Parkinson's but not LBD. The Parkinson's took him roughly 5 years ago and it ...
SWBTATTReg
Feb 2022
#60