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PoindexterOglethorpe

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29. Yes, it was rough.
Wed Jan 26, 2022, 08:17 PM
Jan 2022

He was incredibly cheerful and upbeat about the whole thing. Several years ago I was visiting him (he lived in Tucson) and I went to his pharmacy to pick up some prescriptions. The young lady who gave them to me told me how wonderful he was, how always happy and friendly. I thanked her, and told her that I was likewise in awe of his attitude. I don't think I'd have been as good if something like that happened to me.

He was also on kidney dialysis for several years, and then got a kidney from a living donor. My brother died last year, some 16 years after that donation. We found his donor's FB page and posted on it that he'd died and we were so very much appreciative that her donation had given him 16 years of life. For a year we never heard back from her. Turns out she rarely checks her FB page, but chose to do so on Christmas Day, and saw our post. She got in touch, and both I and my sister were able to speak with her. It was joyous, because we wanted so much for her to know what her donation meant.

Her donation was an example of The Kindness of Strangers.

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I did Timewas Jan 2022 #6
You got it on first try? XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #7
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What people don't understand about getting SSDI is the enormous amount of PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #9
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I am sorry. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #12
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That's a problem. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #19
I spoke to an attorney 2 years ago XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #16
Is the attorney one who does SSDI appeals? If not, his opinion may not be PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #20
He is. Also handles LTD XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #23
Good. Things are moving forward. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #26
Thats what my shrink said XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #27
You damn well should be. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2022 #13
That's just how I feel XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #15
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yes Timewas Jan 2022 #18
Right. People don't understand that they have to be PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #21
I'm so sorry about your brother XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #25
Yes, it was rough. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #29
Correct Timewas Jan 2022 #28
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I'm 56 nt XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #24
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