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Rhiannon12866

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4. I think feeling like this is perfectly natural
Sun Jul 5, 2020, 06:07 PM
Jul 2020

I have pets, too, am also an animal lover from way back. And I think it's normal to get easily attached and to feel that no one could give a pet the care that you could, especially one with issues or special needs. And now that the cat you've become attached to is no longer accessible to you, you're going to wonder and worry. I think that's perfectly natural.

I also follow dogs and cats in need in shelters online and I also worry and find it makes me anxious. I know I can only do so much, but that doesn't help my anxiety. I hadn't thought of it before, but I'm also OCD, so that may be a part of it. And the anxiety about what's going on in this country - and the world - right now certainly doesn't help.

Welcome back to DU, this place is a haven for so many of us right now. I've also been here for quite a few years, but was shut out after this site experienced an election day hack back in 2016 like so many were and EarlG helped me access my original account. If you'd like help with that, I'm sure he could help you as well. Hang in there and welcome back! You're in the right place...

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She will always be with you in your memory. cayugafalls Jul 2020 #1
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Tiddles! I love that name! Give her some extra rubs from me! cayugafalls Jul 2020 #10
Thanks for reading and responding XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #16
All of us are crazy persons. raging moderate Jul 2020 #2
Thank you XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #5
Do you get an emotional lift from watching dodo or other cat/animal vids? JudyM Jul 2020 #19
I love the Dodo XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #20
I think feeling like this is perfectly natural Rhiannon12866 Jul 2020 #4
I remember your username, and thank you! XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #7
I think you joined about the same time I did, back on DU.1 Rhiannon12866 Jul 2020 #15
Yes, my first username was Libertychick XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #17
Ah, that second one was the one I found, went back to DU.1 Rhiannon12866 Jul 2020 #18
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You take care. sheshe2 Jul 2020 #13
You imagined she was yours. voteearlyvoteoften Jul 2020 #9
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Separation anxiety is rough especially when one already feels alone, that adds 42bambi Jul 2020 #12
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Good to meet you. 3catwoman3 Jul 2020 #21
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I totally understand, you took Tiddles into your heart and it's normal to feel LiberalLoner Jul 2020 #23
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