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lillypaddle

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15. I don't know if it would help
Sun Jul 5, 2020, 02:38 AM
Jul 2020

to remind yourself that you are not alone - literally millions of people are doing exactly what you are doing, and thinking the same.

Makes me think about when I was much younger, and Saturday would roll around and I didn't have a date. Or more strikingly, New Years Eve. I always thought everyone out there was doing SOMETHING, being loved, dancing, laughing. And there I was, with a book and a bottle of champagne for the occasion. I felt somewhat discarded. And very alone.

Not sure where I was going with that.

And now, on top of the aloneness, I am old - yes, even elderly, so I contemplate my aches and pains in my isolation. The most hellish part is that I can't dance, and oh how I loved to dance. And even if you didn't much care for me, you would have liked seeing me dance. My center of gravity has changed, along with other things, and even by myself, I don't dance.

Dance, my friend, if you can. Even if it's alone. And if you can't dance, know that you are not the only one.

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I thought I'd never say this [View all] I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 OP
Sending you some 💕💕💕💕 MLAA Jul 2020 #1
It's quite normal to miss the routines that help you cope. CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2020 #2
Can you access a therapist? RandySF Jul 2020 #3
Yeah talk I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #5
I'll keep you in my heart. 💙 sprinkleeninow Jul 2020 #4
Hang-in there undergroundpanther! CountAllVotes Jul 2020 #6
Contact me and I will give you my phone number. I like to talk. rusty quoin Jul 2020 #7
I would strongly suggest 432 Hz solfeggio frequencies. alittlelark Jul 2020 #8
I think many of us feel this way right now Bayard Jul 2020 #9
I do have I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #10
Awwwww SheltieLover Jul 2020 #13
I'm so glad you have a kitty! LiberalLoner Jul 2020 #16
Glad you have Bobo I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #18
. . . fleur-de-lisa Jul 2020 #11
You may feel alone but you are not. Laffy Kat Jul 2020 #12
I don't know whether you do yoga -- I have found it very healing and do it as a daily diva77 Jul 2020 #14
I don't know if it would help lillypaddle Jul 2020 #15
Dance I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #17
Damn, you're cute lillypaddle Jul 2020 #20
Lilly paddle I am 54 years old I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #21
Soon to be 73 lillypaddle Jul 2020 #22
Aww lillypaddle I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #23
LOL lillypaddle Jul 2020 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author Canoe52 Jul 2020 #19
Sending you healing thoughts XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #24
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