Help! Trying to keep my family from falling apart!! [View all]
Our 20 y/o daughter came home from college when they closed the campus then finished her classes online from home even though she has an apartment at school she shares with one roommate
Her original plan for the summer was to go on a birthright trip but it was canceled due to Covid, so understandably, she is suffering from depression & anxiety, but she is taking full advantage of us and treating us like shit.
When we talked with her about seeing a therapist she said 'I'm an adult and you cant make me go.' My husband tried some other approaches but we keep hitting a brick wall.
If we take the 'tough love' approach and take her (our) car away & remove her from our family plan I'm afraid of what she may do.
I know there's no way she would agree to go to family counseling with us.
I keep reminding myself their brains aren't fully developed.
Therapist? Psychologist? Psychiatrist?
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