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woodsprite

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10. This is so true! I can remember stopping by the fire house
Wed Aug 17, 2022, 10:30 PM
Aug 2022

With my father when I was 10 or 11 yo. I had dressed up a bit because we were heading to the hospital to visit mom after her hysterectomy, but he had to drop off some budget reports. I went in with him because they had ping-pong and shuffleboard to keep me entertained while he filed the reports. I can remember him having words with one of the younger firefighters because he was saying “look at the headlights on her”. I cried. I thought he was talking about my knobby knees. I would have been more upset if I really knew what he meant. Dad never took me back to the firehouse after that.

I was the only girl in my 3rd grade class wearing a bra because it was needed. I got in trouble for whacking a kid who kept snapping my bra straps. The teacher, Mrs Barclays, took me out in the hall and told me to stop disturbing the class, that I should be happy because it meant he liked me, AND she said she give a months salary to have what I had. Even in 3rd grade I was mortified that she spoke to me that way. I told my mom, but she didn’t do anything about it.

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The health risks of maturing early [View all] Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 OP
Wow this resonates with me. pnwest Aug 2022 #1
Yes it does Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 #5
Girls in my family look like women at an early age, body-wise. Solly Mack Aug 2022 #2
I totally understand Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 #6
I still prefer baggy clothing because of it. Solly Mack Aug 2022 #7
I understand Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 #8
I always felt like young girls today look older/more mature than I did at their age... dixiechiken1 Aug 2022 #3
I sometimes wonder Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 #4
I've often wondered this myself gay texan Aug 2022 #9
This is so true! I can remember stopping by the fire house woodsprite Aug 2022 #10
Oh woodsprite, I'm so sorry you had that experience. Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 #11
So glad I'm an old lady now Timeflyer Aug 2022 #12
Yep. Diamond_Dog Aug 2022 #13
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