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42bambi

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16. 35 years ago when my brother told our Mom that he was gay she was

Reply to vercetti2021 (Reply #7)

Sun Jun 21, 2020, 10:26 PM

Jun 2020

surprised, upset, and crying. I asked her why was she crying ... she didn't answer me, so I simply asked her if she loved him yesterday, well she got her dander up and said yes of course! So I asked her if she loved him now ... she said of course! After a minute or so, I said, so you feel the same way about him as you did yesterday, yes she said ... I asked her, well what has changed then? Oh I see, she said, smiling. From then on, the rest was as it always was ... still a Mom and a son. Hopefully when you tell your Dad he will love you just as he did yesterday. Good luck to you, it's a proud moment for you when you are able to be yourself.

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I came out to my mom Friday night [View all] vercetti2021 Jun 2020 OP

Kudos, and very best wishes as you move ahead. JohnnyLib2 Jun 2020 #1

Good for you! SheltieLover Jun 2020 #2

There's something different about everyone. Dream Girl Jun 2020 #3

good for you! FirstLight Jun 2020 #4

I'm sure she is proud too vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #6

it's ok for you to talk about that too, sounds like she knows already FirstLight Jun 2020 #8

I could never fully transition vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #9

yes, i imagine it's hard on the body and the mind...hormones suck! FirstLight Jun 2020 #10

Lol vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #13

anything you do to help your health will also help the dysphoria FirstLight Jun 2020 #14

I'm gonna need it vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #15

Post removed Post removed Jun 2020 #18

I am happy for you that your mother has been supportive tulipsandroses Jun 2020 #5

I will always worry vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #7

35 years ago when my brother told our Mom that he was gay she was 42bambi Jun 2020 #16

Stay encouraged, vercetti2021. Know that you are loved and find strength in that. littlemissmartypants Jun 2020 #11

Proud of you for iamateacher Jun 2020 #12

Bravo! Advice about dad ... Odoreida Jun 2020 #17

Hello ga_girl Jun 2020 #19