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nomorenomore08

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28. "...the woman was the perpetrator in 70% of those cases." That in particular is really striking.
Thu Aug 8, 2013, 01:19 AM
Aug 2013

Maybe it shows how ingrained the "never hit a girl" taboo (which I would normally consider a good thing) is for many young men.

The thing is though, even if "[o]nly 15% of violent relationships fit the nonreciprocal wife-beater stereotype," those relationships most likely account for a vastly disproportionate number of serious injuries and deaths, for both the reasons I've previously listed - physical size/strength advantage, gun ownership - and others. I'm only speculating on a justification though, because ultimately I agree that our society's and legal system's response to DV thus far has been utterly inadequate on more levels than one. Though admittedly, I have no real solutions to offer there.

And while it's clear that demonizing men as a group, when a minority of their gender commit highly disproportionate levels of violence and abuse, does little to help matters, it's also clear that that segment of the male population - which exists among all races, social classes, etc. - is very dangerous to both women and other men, and must be dealt with as a dire social problem.

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You might want to post the spectrum of violence covered intaglio Aug 2013 #1
The study isn't about men or women Major Nikon Aug 2013 #2
You are reporting that women are as violent as men in the conventional sense of violence intaglio Aug 2013 #3
I reported no such thing Major Nikon Aug 2013 #7
What is the title of your thread? intaglio Aug 2013 #16
I addressed that in post 13, snookums. (right below this, interestingly enough)... go read... opiate69 Aug 2013 #18
"expected definition" Major Nikon Aug 2013 #20
Reading comprehension.. might want to bone up... opiate69 Aug 2013 #13
"in the conventional sense of violence" lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #15
Women 18-28 more frequently commit relationship violence. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #19
Ah, so emotional abuse is only actually abuse if the victim is female? opiate69 Aug 2013 #4
I did not say that, do not put words in my mouth intaglio Aug 2013 #5
The reasoning was explained in the article... opiate69 Aug 2013 #6
And that makes the OP lack any responsibility for what he posts? intaglio Aug 2013 #9
It's an article from NBC news Major Nikon Aug 2013 #14
You've been trying to put words in my mouth Major Nikon Aug 2013 #8
No the word "Violence" is your OP title intaglio Aug 2013 #10
It was quoted directly from the article title Major Nikon Aug 2013 #11
It's the title of the actual article, verbatim ffs.. opiate69 Aug 2013 #12
I see little debate that men stalking, controlling, and verbally abusing qualifies as violence lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #17
Those behaviors are clearly abusive no matter who engages in them. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #22
Absolutely true. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #23
I agree that domestic violence, regardless of the gender of the abuser or abusee, shouldn't nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #25
15% explained. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #27
"...the woman was the perpetrator in 70% of those cases." That in particular is really striking. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #28
The study said that nonreciprocally violent relationships were less likely to involve injury. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #29
Whether or not women are a violent as men - which by many definitions of "violence" they aren't - nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #21
"Violence" need not be in scare quotes. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2013 #24
"It would be more effective to interrupt the violence at... a point at which no one needs nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #26
Not exactly on topic, but close methinks. ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #30
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