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Bonobo

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Tue Aug 21, 2012, 04:44 AM Aug 2012

Do men need to play more of a role in stopping mothers from sexualizing daughters? [View all]


http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/custody-risk-toddlers-tiaras-star-wears-fake-boobs-122003383--abc-news-tv.html
[h1]Custody at Risk After 'Toddlers & Tiaras' Star Wears Controversial Outfit[/h1]

The woman who dressed her young daughter as Dolly Parton - complete with a padded bra and sculpting underwear - for a child beauty pageant that aired on TLC's "Toddlers & Tiaras" could lose custody of the girl after her estranged husband claimed she sexually exploited their daughter by allowing her to dress so provocatively.

Her father, Bill Verst, has asked a Kentucky court to grant him sole custody of his daughter, who is now 6.

During a court proceeding Saturday, a judge threw reporters out of the courtroom, closed the hearing and placed a gag order on mother Lindsay Jackson. The judge also imposed a ban on any pageant activity for Maddy or her mother for the duration of the trial.

Jackson said the costume was never meant to be sexual and that she shouldn't be at risk of losing her daughter.
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[h2]Moms Wield Greater Influence Than TV on Sexualization of Girls[/h2]

http://www.myhealthnewsdaily.com/2863-girls-sexualization-mothers-attitudes.html

While the media is often blamed for influencing young girls' desire to be sexy, a new study suggests mothers' attitudes play a more important role.

In the study, researchers found no link between the amount of TV and movies that girls ages 6 to 9 watched, and their risk of sexualizing themselves. (Sexualization is defined as valuing oneself solely on sex appeal, or treating oneself as a sex object.)

However, among girls who watched a lot of TV and movies, those who had mothers who worried about their own looks were at increased risk of early sexualization, the study found.
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Absolutely yes. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #1
Those shows do seem to consist of a mother and daughter 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #2
fathers live thru their sons, also. seabeyond Aug 2012 #3
Seems we should work on tearing down the sexist matriarchy then 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #4
you do not get the way it works, obviously. and i do not need to rethink seabeyond Aug 2012 #5
Your group talks about society incessantly 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #6
on post 2 you had to throw in a totally bogus jab. that is what i was addressing. now seabeyond Aug 2012 #7
How is it a totally bogus jab? 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #9
this should have been an easy agreement. outta here. parenting to do. nt seabeyond Aug 2012 #10
I don't think "your group" is a useful basis for discussion. n/t lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #8
Oh I know 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #11
and yours isn't? jarred222 Aug 2012 #12
Then I suggest you avoid both. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #14
Why? This amuses me. jarred222 Aug 2012 #16
Consider that an official warning. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #17
Post removed Post removed Aug 2012 #21
Wonder who this is.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2012 #23
He sounds vaguely familiar. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #25
Found it! Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #26
A) I never claimed that I represented anyone by myself 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #18
Both groups espouse gender essentialism. jarred222 Aug 2012 #22
No that's not true 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #24
What you define as "sexism" most people here consider to be normal adult physical attraction. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #15
I could never be involved in any way, shape, or form with anyone who would think that shit was okay. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #13
There is a custody battle going on here, so all bets are off... TreasonousBastard Aug 2012 #19
I'm guessing the fathers that are present "accept it" in the same sense 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Aug 2012 #27
Motivation 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Aug 2012 #29
There really isn't a lot of money in these pageants 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Aug 2012 #31
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