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Hillary Clinton

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realmirage

(2,117 posts)
Fri Jun 10, 2016, 03:02 AM Jun 2016

Hillary supporters and expecting too much too fast from Sanders supporters [View all]

I have supported Hillary since she ran the first time around. I am very happy with her success in the primaries, to put it mildly. But I don't expect everyone who passionately supported a different candidate to just, one day after Hillary clinches, forget all these months of pushing for their candidate and jump on board with another one, even though that candidate is in the same party. Even Olympians are crushed when they lose to a fellow American who is on the same team. The best of them are graceful in defeat and then they retreat somewhere alone and fully experience the process of absorbing the loss. It is not easy.

Not everyone is graceful. But I think just like most Hillary fans have been quietly voting, not getting involved in the melees, there are many Sanders supporters who aren't lashing out, they are just quietly watching and going through the process of first accepting Hillary as the nominee, then actually getting to know her. There are some on this site that are really not able to process the loss on any level, and their threads are not pretty, but they're not the majority of Sanders supporters. But no matter what, everyone deserves that space and time to go through the process. That doesn't mean I let anyone shit on me. But that also doesn't mean I am baffled that all of them don't just switch gears within 24 hours and support Hillary. We've got plenty of time. Within a couple of months most of the holdouts will have completely worked through all this, and most will still be Democrats. The rest you never could do anything about anyway.



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Thank you for... JSup Jun 2016 #1
Ever had a fight with a family member? realmirage Jun 2016 #2
Oh, definitely... JSup Jun 2016 #25
It will take time. I agree. BainsBane Jun 2016 #3
I think he will, I believe Sanders after DC is going to drop out Legends303 Jun 2016 #18
Thanks. I think you got it exactly right. Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #4
Yes time and space are what's needed in the days after a loss, heck even after a win! Her Sister Jun 2016 #5
Are you on ricks list of Hillary supporters? stonecutter357 Jun 2016 #6
I don't know how many will ever come around Stuckinthebush Jun 2016 #7
Thanks for the reality check, Stuck. Cha Jun 2016 #9
Good morning Cha. stonecutter357 Jun 2016 #12
You, too.. thanks for your Reality Check and Good Cha Jun 2016 #13
I'd say a lot of Hillary supporters will need time also realmirage Jun 2016 #16
It is a small group wryter2000 Jun 2016 #23
Well on the 16th that won't be a problem here anymore realmirage Jun 2016 #24
Wow, SitB, you articulated my thoughts *exactly*. Nothing to add. BlueCaliDem Jun 2016 #28
i completely agree drray23 Jun 2016 #31
I agree that everyone needs space. While it is more difficult for Sanders supporters because they seaglass Jun 2016 #8
Good advice. That's mostly what I do realmirage Jun 2016 #17
Exactly right! DemonGoddess Jun 2016 #21
I just have one suggestion to make to help Sander's people to come to terms with... Walk away Jun 2016 #10
+1 sarae Jun 2016 #15
+1000! DemonGoddess Jun 2016 #22
+ 2000 eom BlueCaliDem Jun 2016 #29
Berners are not going to acknowledge that its over until Bernie does liberal N proud Jun 2016 #11
He's just trying to get leverage in negotiating over realmirage Jun 2016 #19
I tend to agree. TwilightZone Jun 2016 #33
Agree with all of that. Political theater is exactly the right word. realmirage Jun 2016 #35
I agree with this Nonhlanhla Jun 2016 #14
I totally agree. Before the convention in 08 realmirage Jun 2016 #20
But Hillary didn't spend her entire campaign attacking the Democratic party. Walk away Jun 2016 #26
She didn't complain ad naseaum about the process being "rigged" either Proud Liberal Dem Jun 2016 #27
No, and yet it's interesting that unity was even more mangled this time of year in 08. realmirage Jun 2016 #34
I have been very quiet on my Facebook page about who I support. Starry Messenger Jun 2016 #30
Don't take any shit from anyone. I'm just saying it's normal for the losing side to be realmirage Jun 2016 #32
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