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SWBTATTReg

(24,586 posts)
Fri Feb 24, 2023, 08:39 AM Feb 2023

Influencer gets a FIRM NO to her offer from a Cafe and/or Lodge, the answer from the firm's [View all]

owner is worth reading and is a wonderful response...as you can tell, I don't really like most 'bloggers', especially those that offer their services in exchange for something in return from the business. Talk about high end mooching, eh? Here's the article (parts of it, I didn't copy all of it, it's in today's edition of "Women's Health", titled "The Hotel This Influencer Wanted To Stay At For Free Is Now Billing Her Millions", Story by Tess Koman • 1h ago). Score a win for the owner, IMHO.

Now don't get me wrong, but I would suspect that any business that needed to drum up business, etc. already has things going on that would do the same thing, generate more business for the business, and not need the services of a 'blogger'. It seems that I hear all of the time of blogger efforts to score freebies from a score of businesses that write about their encounters with so called bloggers, it seems to be kind of an ongoing practice within the blogger community.

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Soon after YouTuber Elle Darby asked Dublin's White Moose Cafe and Charleville Lodge if she could stay for free, NY Mag reports the hotel's owner Paul Stenson shut her way, way down.

In a January 16 Facebook post, Stenson screengrabbed Darby's apparent email in which she asked for a comped stay essentially in return for traffic to the hotel. She notes her tens of thousands of YouTube and Instagram followers as proof this arrangement would be beneficial to the hotel.

"Thank you for your email looking for free accommodation in return for exposure. It takes a lot of balls to send an email like that, if not much self-respect and dignity," Stenson's reply begins. He continues:

If I let you stay here in return for a feature in your video, who is going to pay the staff who look after you? Who is going to pay the housekeepers who clean your room? The waiters who serve you breakfast? The receptionist who checks you in? Who is going to pay for the light and heat you use during your stay? The laundering of your bed sheets? The water rates? Maybe I should tell my staff they will be featured in your video in lieu of receiving payment for work carried out while you're in residence?In future, I'd advise you to offer to pay your way like everyone else, and if the hotel in question believes your coverage will help them, maybe they'll give you a complimentary upgrade to a suite. This would show more self-respect on your part and, let's face it, it would be less embarrassing for you. Best regards, Paul Stensonwww.charlevillelodge.ieP.S. The answer is no.

(rest of article goes on)...

I don't know if this owner's excellent response to this request of freebies from the business will stop this practice, but as a business owner owning 10 units of a very small lodging business (trout fishing), even 1 unit given up for free for a duration of time would have cut into my operating expenses, being that there were numerous other lodging businesses also competing for business in the area.

Enjoy, especially for those of us who do have small Mom and Pop businesses.

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Sounds like some influencers are a lot like Trump- Freethinker65 Feb 2023 #1
I got a laugh out of your post, thank you! I enjoyed the laugh, and you're absolutely right SWBTATTReg Feb 2023 #3
Uggh. The entire concept of "influencers" is repugnant to me. hlthe2b Feb 2023 #2
You nailed it! SWBTATTReg Feb 2023 #4
Absolutely! They're like leeches. It's ugly that some can maake $millions for their opinions. sinkingfeeling Feb 2023 #7
I don't get the hate. Ferrets are Cool Feb 2023 #9
There's a vast difference between dislike and hatred. n/t Mister Ed Feb 2023 #16
Do you not see the difference between those who entertain and those who dispense dangerous, hlthe2b Feb 2023 #21
I don't hate them. Just think its another scam being played on the sinkingfeeling Feb 2023 #26
I would be embarrassed to be influenced by an influencer. Scrivener7 Feb 2023 #31
Look at this ignotwit's racist shit: CurtEastPoint Feb 2023 #5
According to the Daily Mail article, the hotel's response happened in 2018. TheRickles Feb 2023 #13
I checked out their website and the hotel is very affordable nuxvomica Feb 2023 #6
Reading the website is quite a treat. TNNurse Feb 2023 #12
Yes it is! nuxvomica Feb 2023 #29
A simple no would have sufficed. I've always been told that you never know the answer till Ferrets are Cool Feb 2023 #8
Some people are fed up with the damage the Kardashian mentality has done to society. Lucky Luciano Feb 2023 #10
yeah..... such as the notion that it's cool to be stupid groundloop Feb 2023 #15
The title "Influencer" is so telling. TNNurse Feb 2023 #11
Musicians Wiscodoug Feb 2023 #14
+1. I lived through that back in the 80s and 90s too. n/t iscooterliberally Feb 2023 #28
There are real ethical concerns with how "influencers" operate.... getagrip_already Feb 2023 #17
Here is the thing about these type of people tornado34jh Feb 2023 #18
I kind of object to calling Youtube channels "Blogs" plimsoll Feb 2023 #19
Sounds to me that the 'influencer' wants a bribe in return for a good review rurallib Feb 2023 #20
"Influencer" to me is "Manipulator." NBachers Feb 2023 #22
good on the owner. what is youtube influncer ? need input please. AllaN01Bear Feb 2023 #23
What a strange world we live in that an 'influencer' is a "job" infullview Feb 2023 #24
I got to say Stenson is well you'll see Historic NY Feb 2023 #25
An influencer is just a person who has a large audience oldmanlynn Feb 2023 #27
Yes, and welcome to DU Ferrets are Cool Feb 2023 #30
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