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LiberalLoner

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53. Oh gosh I am so sorry you went through that 😭 but I am glad you are alive and I hope
Mon Sep 11, 2023, 09:26 AM
Sep 2023

So much it will never ever return.

Yeah if it comes back I will do what you did and then also stay flat. I’m 62, no reason for me to be all picky about my appearance, and better to play it safe.

The doctor felt partial mastectomies made the most sense in my case. Two separate IDCs in my left, one atypical ductal hyperplasia on the right. I would have gone for total mastectomies but the doctor said I wouldn’t be any safer, so might as well go with the less severe surgery.

Did you have a lot of pain afterwards?

The doctor said my pain would be easily managed with otc but I don’t know if she was saying that because it’s really true or if she was saying that because doctors don’t like to give the strong stiff anymore due to the addiction crisis.

So I’m trying to ask people who have gone through it so I know how bad the pain will be. People have said it’s not as painful as healing from a hysterectomy so that made me feel better.

Thank you again so very much and also thanks for the encouragement!
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LiberalLoner, I think your paintings are beautiful! Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #1
Thank you so much for being so kind and reassuring me! I feel better! 🙂 I hope the LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #4
I think you are off to a good start flying rabbit Sep 2023 #2
Thank you so much!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #5
Those are both beautiful paintings. I don't think you need any advice. When I first started LoisB Sep 2023 #3
Thank you so very much! ❤️❤️❤️ I do think I have been overloading my brush now that I LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #6
You are very welcome. Hugs. LoisB Sep 2023 #7
❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #17
Nice paintings! AltairIV Sep 2023 #8
Thank you so very much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #12
i have no advice to give you for your paintings orleans Sep 2023 #9
Thank you! ❤️ my eyes are always drawn to the mountains, I am from Montana so... LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #14
the mountains did stand out -- but, for me, the "pop" was the purple. (but i love purple! lol) nt orleans Sep 2023 #40
Oh, I do too! I was trying to paint cherry trees in blossom but I'm finding it challenging as can be LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #42
They are very good and sign your works bucolic_frolic Sep 2023 #10
Prayers for a safe surgery and quick healing, bucolic_frolic. pazzyanne Sep 2023 #13
Thank you so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ oil painting is a great medium, isn't it? LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #43
Oh, thank you so much! I saw these as throw aways tbh so didn't even think about signing! ❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #15
We're pulling for you! bucolic_frolic Sep 2023 #20
Thank you so very much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #44
Your paintings are lovely dlk Sep 2023 #11
Thank you so very much for your kindness ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #16
Anytime 😊 dlk Sep 2023 #18
Thank you so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #45
Those are so beautiful samplegirl Sep 2023 #19
Thank you so very much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #37
Those are gorgeous! MuseRider Sep 2023 #21
Thank you, that's very kind of you! I agree, art and music are healing....❤️❤️❤️😢 LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #38
I can't believe you're a beginner! Those look amazing. Lonestarblue Sep 2023 #22
Oh, wow, thank you! I did try oil painting before. And I guess did some paintings, but the LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #46
Beautiful Duncanpup Sep 2023 #23
Thank you so so so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ for everything. You are very kind ❤️❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #47
Oils joelg Sep 2023 #24
Oh gosh thank you for your kind encouragement! ❤️❤️❤️ I feel like I got a gold star from my LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #48
I really like Rebl2 Sep 2023 #25
Thank you so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #49
Great paintings cyclonefence Sep 2023 #26
Oh my goodness I am sorry you had this twice, but glad you beat it and are still here, LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #50
Water-mixable oil paints? Am I dreaming? cyclonefence Sep 2023 #66
You're off to a pretty good start! 2naSalit Sep 2023 #27
Thank you so so much for your kind encouragement, ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #51
Definitely this... 2naSalit Sep 2023 #61
I hope you will be able to stay in Montana and LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #62
Thanks. 2naSalit Sep 2023 #63
🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #64
Love your paintings LiberalLoner!😍❤️ lucca18 Sep 2023 #28
Thank you so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #52
11 year breast cancer survivor. TNNurse Sep 2023 #29
Oh gosh I am so sorry you went through that 😭 but I am glad you are alive and I hope LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #53
Very pretty! shenmue Sep 2023 #30
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #54
One of my favorite cheap-and-easy ways - bhikkhu Sep 2023 #31
I'm a musician, not an artist, luvtheGWN Sep 2023 #32
Oh, thank you so so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ I am glad you beat the cancer and I hope it never returns, LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #55
You are very talented, LiberalLoner. Sending positive vibes and prayers judesedit Sep 2023 #33
Thank you so so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #56
You're very welcome. It's much deserved. judesedit Sep 2023 #65
Absolutely gorgeous, LL! evolves Sep 2023 #34
Oh thank you so so much! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I am so glad you beat it, I will stay positive and believe LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #58
They are both beautiful paintings! people Sep 2023 #35
Thank you so so much! ❤️❤️❤️ yes I feel finding the water mixable and being able to go LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #59
Very nice! Both are lovely, I especially like the one on the right Ocelot II Sep 2023 #36
Thank you so so so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #60
I found an article that might be helpful for someone who might want to try oil painting LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #39
Those are both beautiful! bif Sep 2023 #41
Thank you so so so much, friend! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Sep 2023 #57
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