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Deceptive Behaviors Lying People Display to Reveal Themselves (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Wednesday OP
They missed one. Being a Republican. GreenWave Wednesday #1
Ummm, well, leading your answer with umm or well may be a sign of lying. Jim__ Wednesday #2
Fair question. Unfortunately,... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #4
I usually use "Ummm, well" at the beginning of a sentence Nictuku Wednesday #5
That you're... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #6
Exactly Nictuku Wednesday #7
The part about using the wrong hand gestures. boonecreek Wednesday #3

Jim__

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2. Ummm, well, leading your answer with umm or well may be a sign of lying.
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 03:14 PM
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But, I'd be curious as to what percentage of the time when someone begins their answer with umm or well, they're not lying.

littlemissmartypants

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4. Fair question. Unfortunately,...
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 03:42 PM
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It's not that simple. Deception detection is not based on singular indicators.

It's necessary to look at the overall picture and performance of individuals in communication when attempting to evaluate any level of deception.

Facial expressions, speech patterns, and body language (known clinically as non-verbal communication) analysed through several different categories all contribute when assessing deception.

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Nictuku

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5. I usually use "Ummm, well" at the beginning of a sentence
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 03:49 PM
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when I'm trying to say something truthful, that might offend the person listening, and I'm trying to make it less offensive, usually put into a question format.

"Um, well, doesn't such and such mean this and that?" kind of thing

littlemissmartypants

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6. That you're...
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 06:46 PM
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Prefacing and tempering your comment to be less offensive, is a form of deception. Not all deception is nefarious by intent. The example is when one might say something not entirely truthful to save hurt feelings. Which is what it seems like you're describing here.

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