My mum passed away today.

[bluecollar2]

I'm bewildered, overwhelmed, depressed and numb, confused and uncertain.

I'm going to leave this here with my DU family and go to bed. It has been a long day.

Thank you for being here.

I'm going to need some help over the next few days and DU has been my rock since shrub stole the election.

I love you guys.

[uppityperson]

1. My condolences. Having a parent die is very difficult and painful.

[MFM008]

2. so sorry to hear it

my mom left us Jan 1 2019.
Peace.

[nocoincidences]

3. You know that DU will be here for you.

So sorry...you have support here.

[Skittles]

4. someone is always here on DU

[OAITW r.2.0]

5. Sucks.

Lost my Mom in 1999 to ALD. My Dad in 1976 to a MI. No replacing them. And then we are up to the plate.

[littlemissmartypants]

6. So sorry to hear this. Nothing prepares us for the loss. There's always someone here to listen.

Stay strong.

❤

[babylonsister]

7. Moms are really tough. My

sincere condolences.

[MontanaMama]

8. Oh no. I'm so sorry.

There’s no preparation for this loss. My folks have been gone for many years and while I miss them terribly, it does get easier with time. I’m thinking of you and holding you and yours in my heart.

[Joinfortmill]

9. It's a huge loss. My prayers are with you.

[Maraya1969]

10. I'm so sorry.

[blm]

11. ((blue))

[sheshe2]

12. Try for some sleep tonight, bluecollar.

My heart goes out to you and yours.

[MLAA]

13. Dear bluecollar2

I am sending you and your loved ones 💕💕💕💖💖💖💞💞💖💕💖💖💞💞💖

[Phoenix61]

14. I'm so sorry.

You’re right. There’s always someone here at DU.

[3Hotdogs]

15. Tell us something you want us to know about her.

We are here with you.

[vercetti2021]

16. I'm sorry for your loss

This is my biggest fear.

[luckone]

17. Condolences . May she Rest In Peace

[Delmette2.0]

18. Losing a parent is exceptionally difficult.

I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

[UpInArms]

19. I am so sorry for the loss of your mother, bluecollar

It is a hard time ...

[58Sunliner]

20. So sorry for your loss. I know it isn't easy.

[RestoreAmerica2020]

21. So sorry for your loss. Paz.

[denbot]

22. .

[alwaysinasnit]

23. ...

((bluecollar2))

[applegrove]

24. Vibes to you and yours in this hard time.

[3catwoman3]

25. No matter how old we are or they are, this leaves a huge...

...hole. They loved us before they knew us.

My mom’s spirit was liberated on Dec 12, 2020, and the permanence of this is only now feeling real. She made it to 98, and was doing well until the last 3 weeks, when she got the covid virus.

When someone gets to 98, it’s hard to feel cheated, but still...

[VarryOn]

26. You'll cross my mind...

Often today in prayer.

[momta]

27. My mom died when I was 16

back in 1979. The overwhelming feeling I remember having that day was "Why are there commercials on TV right now? Why is someone trying to sell me cereal? Don't they know my mom just died?"

It wasn't rational, but it was very strong.

Sending love and strength your way. Take care.

[StarryNite]

28. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

[TalenaGor]

29. sending lots of love

I lost my mom to covid in dec - I feel your pain

[irisblue]

30. 🕯️may her memory be always a blesding

[BigmanPigman]

31. This year is almost as bad as 2020.

I still cry all the time since I miss my dad and my little girl. Time isn't helping either.

[SheltieLover]

32. Deepest condolences to you

[Ka-Dinh Oy]

33. My heart and condolences go to you and yours.

[Hamlette]

34. so sorry, let us know if you need anything.

[people]

35. So Sorry, bluecollar2

That is going to be very hard for a while. Give yourself time to feel however you are feeling. Your mom stays with you always, even though she has passed away. Would it work for you to sit down and write and write about your mom?

[FuzzyRabbit]

36. I am so sorry for your loss.

[ancianita]

37. Get some rest, bc. We'll be here.

[pnwest]

38. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Losing a parent

is so strange. We’ve known them our entire lives, it’s hard to imagine existing in the world without them in it. Our parents are eternal, invincible, the most constant presence we’ve known. Sending prayers for comfort for your family, may you find solace in your memories.

[P.C.L.D.]

39. I send my condolences to you and your family.

I lost my mother on Feb 8th and I am still in shock and I wake up everyday thinking this is just a nightmare. I will be praying for you and your family.

[Laurelin]

40. I'm so sorry

I was 14 when I lost my parents and I still miss them. It does get better though.

Be kind to yourself. I have always found that going for a walk is the best way to cope. Talking to people who understand also helps, though animals are sometimes more understanding than people.

I guess the good part is that we loved them enough that losing them is painful.

[ms liberty]

41. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in 93...

You don't really ever get over it, you just get used to it. The wound is still there, but the scab doesn't rip off as easily.

[sinkingfeeling]

42. Deepest sympathy.

[brer cat]

43. I'm so sorry for your loss.

It will take time to overcome your feelings. Allow yourself the time to grieve.

[live love laugh]

44. I'm so sorry 😢

[JudyM]

45. My heart goes out to you, such a challenging time.

Wishing you moments of comfort in the midst of it all.... know that the love you shared will continue permeating your life.

[BComplex]

46. I'm so sorry, bluecollar2.

Bless your mom's soul, and I pray she will rest in peace.

And a big hug for you.