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FirstLight

(15,087 posts)
Thu May 1, 2025, 12:08 PM May 1

I need a Beltane Reading about a relationship... ug.

I got one of "those" who keep showing up. I have literally been on & off with him since the 90's...thru his baby momas and my exes, we still end up seeing eachother around town and hooking up again. He's sweet, very loving and sensitive, healthy, and has matured as much as any of us do parenting and adulting...

But he is SO the epitome of the one who seemingly just wants to get in your pants. He doesnt even realize it...just like my freakin HS sweetheart, they show love by physical stuff...and it can be uncomfortable when you just wanna have a conversation! lol... I told him a couple weeks ago that I couldnt do the flirting stuff and we need to just be friends... But whoo...here comes that Beltane Energy and he was sniffin around and flirting already this morning!

The astrology tells me I have a relationship opportunity, but also says to make some big decisions... my divorce is also final this month so tha could be interfereing with the read.
Anyone wanna take a crack at this?

I'm a Cap/Libra/Libra I'll message you deets if you need them
55 y/o

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I need a Beltane Reading about a relationship... ug. (Original Post) FirstLight May 1 OP
You don't need astrology. i was a cathar... May 9 #1
Oh yeah honey he's been blocked FirstLight May 9 #2
😅 i was a cathar... May 9 #3
Good for you! SheltieLover May 12 #4
 
1. You don't need astrology.
Fri May 9, 2025, 05:06 PM
May 9

(As a professional astrologer it's odd to write that but true sometimes.) In my experience, people are looking for cosmic loopholes sometimes. The reality of the situation is that you want a relationship that is not one-dimensional based on sex. If someone shows you who they are, believe them! Don't try to make them into something they are not. You're just spinning your wheels. You've had a very traumatic relationship breakup. That Libra energy feels more comfortable as part of a couple. Be uncomfortable. Allow yourself to not be entangled in yet another relationship just yet.

FirstLight

(15,087 posts)
2. Oh yeah honey he's been blocked
Fri May 9, 2025, 05:09 PM
May 9

And then he tried to come back around texting my personal cell number asking if I'm okay.. LOL and so I blocked him there too

He knows where I live and he has not come over to check on me so obviously he's not concerned about my health or anything he just wants to get back in my pants, fucker

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