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femmedem

(8,462 posts)
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:33 AM Oct 2024

I'm gobsmacked. This beautiful, seven-month old kitten practically tamed himself.

First, the backstory: In early June, I caught three littermates and brought them to Friends of Feral Felines to be socialized, immunized and adopted. After several months, one of the boys was neutered and returned to me as untameable. I figured he could join my little colony of community cats, but he became friendlier and friendlier, and one day he followed me inside. Now he's a lovebug who likes to knead the covers while he licks my hand.

But I wasn't able to catch the fourth littermate--a gorgeous Siamese/tabby mix--until this past Saturday. I dropped him off to be neutered and picked him up yesterday morning. I wasn't sure if I should release him outside or isolate him in the bathroom and try to tame him. I ended up isolating him because I figured that although the odds of taming a 7-month-old feral cat were slim, it would be my only chance. After two hours of sitting with him quietly, I was able to pet him. When he started to purr, I almost cried.

Less than 24 hours later, here he is.

Now I've got to come up with a name.

(His stray mom is spayed now and has a potential adopter.)

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I'm gobsmacked. This beautiful, seven-month old kitten practically tamed himself. (Original Post) femmedem Oct 2024 OP
Aww, what a sweetie! lark Oct 2024 #1
I don't know who is luckier, him or me. femmedem Oct 2024 #3
Maybe you should name him cannabis_flower Oct 2024 #38
Looks so much like my Osiris, Osie for short! HeartsCanHope Oct 2024 #57
What good fortune! 2naSalit Oct 2024 #2
I could see him as a Nelson. femmedem Oct 2024 #6
He looks... 2naSalit Oct 2024 #10
He is gorgeous! SheltieLover Oct 2024 #4
I've decided taming ferals is my superpower. femmedem Oct 2024 #7
He is beautiful. AltairIV Oct 2024 #5
Thanks for your kind words! femmedem Oct 2024 #9
I love his coloring. riversedge Oct 2024 #8
I had never seen a cat with his coloring before! femmedem Oct 2024 #11
His coloring catchnrelease Oct 2024 #40
I agree about the lynx point pattern. 3catwoman3 Oct 2024 #42
What a gorgeous little boy, and what wonderful news. Give him a day niyad Oct 2024 #12
I think you're right about the name. femmedem Oct 2024 #14
Here's what he looked like a few months ago--a beautiful apparition in our yard. femmedem Oct 2024 #13
Gandalf the Grey? niyad Oct 2024 #15
Oh! Nice! n/t femmedem Oct 2024 #16
Dal (doll) for short? niyad Oct 2024 #17
What a beautiful little kitty. I read a book about the domestication of cats Walleye Oct 2024 #18
I believe it, based on this guy and his brother! femmedem Oct 2024 #19
Can't remember the title, but it was hard to read and very technical. Still, the conclusion was clear. Walleye Oct 2024 #22
Thanks for sharing the conclusion and steerig me away from the book. femmedem Oct 2024 #23
What a handsome little boy! Bayard Oct 2024 #20
What a great name for him! femmedem Oct 2024 #26
We had a cat named Chance EverHopeful Oct 2024 #31
Sometimes foster fails are the best successes! femmedem Oct 2024 #37
He's So Beautiful!! ❤️😸 littlemissmartypants Oct 2024 #21
Yeah, breathtakingly so, inside and out. femmedem Oct 2024 #28
Admittedly it does not take much these days. Prairie_Seagull Oct 2024 #24
I love dogs, too. femmedem Oct 2024 #27
He looks just like Cisco, k55f5r Oct 2024 #25
Aww dang it Whatthe_Firetruck Oct 2024 #33
Not bad k55f5r Oct 2024 #34
Havent heard the right filk Whatthe_Firetruck Oct 2024 #43
I loves me some Heather Alexander. k55f5r Oct 2024 #48
Did you know? Whatthe_Firetruck Oct 2024 #52
What a gorgeous little boy, so very precious 💙💙 TommieMommy Oct 2024 #29
"Purrcival" to honor the quick appearance of his purr. 3catwoman3 Oct 2024 #30
Ooooh. Mr. Femmedem and I both appreciate a good pun. femmedem Oct 2024 #35
I was thinking "Purrseus"...... n/t lastlib Oct 2024 #41
I love it! n/t femmedem Oct 2024 #49
Have you named him yet? lastlib Oct 2024 #59
No name yet. His personality is still emerging. femmedem Oct 2024 #60
He is so beautiful! Capt. America Oct 2024 #32
Oh wow, another great name. femmedem Oct 2024 #36
He's beautiful, my love bug is also a lynx point uppityperson Oct 2024 #39
Silver - I had a feral named Silver that became domesticated alittlelark Oct 2024 #44
A good name indeed! femmedem Oct 2024 #45
He was about a year old in a feral colony I TnRed back in CA alittlelark Oct 2024 #46
Wow! femmedem Oct 2024 #47
My guess is he was a runaway behaving as a true feral alittlelark Oct 2024 #53
He looks exactly like our "Silver"!! Duppers Oct 2024 #50
Two DUers with lynx point Siamese cats named Silver! femmedem Oct 2024 #51
They're special kitties in every way! Duppers Oct 2024 #55
That's him exactly! femmedem Oct 2024 #56
Awww. Beautiful baby! CousinIT Oct 2024 #54
What a sweetie! Thank you for saving him. RandomNumbers Oct 2024 #58

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
3. I don't know who is luckier, him or me.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:39 AM
Oct 2024

I never thought this story would have such a happy ending.

HeartsCanHope

(769 posts)
57. Looks so much like my Osiris, Osie for short!
Fri Oct 11, 2024, 01:42 AM
Oct 2024

Sounds like your baby will an absolute love bug like my Osie. Good luck to you both. Take care.
Edited to add : Osie's mom was Siamese, and his dad was an orange tabby. The coloring is almost identical!

2naSalit

(94,429 posts)
2. What good fortune!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:38 AM
Oct 2024

He looks like his name might be "Nelson" but that's just a first impression.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
6. I could see him as a Nelson.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:45 AM
Oct 2024

He was the shyest kitten in the litter, so I never would have predicted he'd take to humans this quickly. It must have helped that I fed him for months without doing anything scary and that he saw other cats trust me.

AltairIV

(707 posts)
5. He is beautiful.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:42 AM
Oct 2024

Cats often sense who it is safe to place their trust in. Your patience, and obvious loving nature is a true gift! I look forward to future updates.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
11. I had never seen a cat with his coloring before!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:55 AM
Oct 2024

His mom was a tabby, and I think his father must have been an orange/Siamese mix that I've seen a few times.

catchnrelease

(2,025 posts)
40. His coloring
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:35 AM
Oct 2024

I've always heard this color referred to as Lynxpoint Siamese. Definitely a mix of Siamese and tabby. I've had a couple like this over the years, it's one of my favorite patterns. Congrats on your success in taming down this guy!

3catwoman3

(25,927 posts)
42. I agree about the lynx point pattern.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 01:10 PM
Oct 2024

And that silvery gray would be blue point coloring in standard Siamese designation.

niyad

(121,404 posts)
12. What a gorgeous little boy, and what wonderful news. Give him a day
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:07 AM
Oct 2024

or two and he will tell you his name.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
14. I think you're right about the name.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:11 AM
Oct 2024

Although it took us forever to name one of our cats: we just called her gray girl for months, until we realized that gray girl translates to Gigi.

Walleye

(37,016 posts)
18. What a beautiful little kitty. I read a book about the domestication of cats
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:28 AM
Oct 2024

The conclusion was that they sort of domesticated themselves

Walleye

(37,016 posts)
22. Can't remember the title, but it was hard to read and very technical. Still, the conclusion was clear.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:53 AM
Oct 2024

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
23. Thanks for sharing the conclusion and steerig me away from the book.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:03 AM
Oct 2024

It doesn't sound like an enjoyable read.

Bayard

(24,151 posts)
20. What a handsome little boy!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:47 AM
Oct 2024

What about Chance as a name, since you took a chance on saving him?

EverHopeful

(396 posts)
31. We had a cat named Chance
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:28 AM
Oct 2024

He was a foster we'd found a home for and his new Dad named him Chance because he was taking a chance on him.

Unfortunately (or as I saw it, fortunately for us) his new Dad's Mom got very ill and he needed to travel out west often to look after her so Chance came back to us. I was glad his Mom eventually recovered but more glad that Chance ended up with us as his furever home.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
28. Yeah, breathtakingly so, inside and out.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:22 AM
Oct 2024

His brother is a tuxedo cat with an unusual white streak along one flank, like a slender bolt of lightning.

Prairie_Seagull

(3,873 posts)
24. Admittedly it does not take much these days.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:05 AM
Oct 2024

That is not to say that your story 'isn't much' but stories like this give me hope that our kind is not completely fucked.

If you don't mine me saying, Well done femmedem.



PS, I am much more of a K9 dude.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
27. I love dogs, too.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:21 AM
Oct 2024

I grew up in a house full of Basset Hounds and Brittany Spaniels. But dogs would have been tougher for us to care for in our small urban house, at least until I retired. By then, we'd taken in some neighborhood stray cats and weren't sure how everyone would get along.

And I'm really glad this story could give you some hope.

k55f5r

(463 posts)
25. He looks just like Cisco,
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:10 AM
Oct 2024

A kitten that the neighbor left behind when she moved as she couldn't catch him to take a long.
We caught him and kept him.
He was a great cat and excellent mouser.
🎶Cisco cat was a friend of mine 🎶

Whatthe_Firetruck

(606 posts)
33. Aww dang it
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:48 AM
Oct 2024

Knee-jerk filk reaction. (Filk = science fiction / fantasy folk music.)

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3catwoman3

(25,927 posts)
30. "Purrcival" to honor the quick appearance of his purr.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:26 AM
Oct 2024

The right name will come to you.

I look forward to many more photos and reports about him.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
60. No name yet. His personality is still emerging.
Sun Oct 13, 2024, 06:41 AM
Oct 2024

I don't know if it's because I moved him from the bathroom to the bedroom or because he's completely healed from being neutered, but he's become much more playful but less affectionate. He never tires of interactive toys like the feather wand, but he hasn't purred or let me pet him since that first day. We're still making progress--if I stretch my hand out towards him, he stretches his paw out to touch me--but he jumps if I touch his head or back.

He's still a miracle boy, though. It's incredible that he sleeps on the bed and will jump all over me if I've got the feather wand, considering how old he is and how little interaction he's had with humans. I believe that if I put the time in, he'll end up a love bug like his brother.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
36. Oh wow, another great name.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:01 AM
Oct 2024

The fosterer named his brother Boo, so they would be Boo and Beau.

alittlelark

(18,933 posts)
44. Silver - I had a feral named Silver that became domesticated
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 02:35 PM
Oct 2024

Your baby looks very similar - I think Silver is a good name……

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
45. A good name indeed!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 03:00 PM
Oct 2024

Was your Silver an adult when he became domesticated?

We have a little drama here this afternoon: I let He Who Has Yet To Be Named out of the bathroom too early, and my oldest boy chased him into the bedroom, where he is currently hiding. My oldest accepted Boo so easily that I didn't anticipate this.

alittlelark

(18,933 posts)
46. He was about a year old in a feral colony I TnRed back in CA
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 03:07 PM
Oct 2024

After I got him fixed and in the spare bathroom he stopped hiding and hissing. They were generally only in there for a few days - I kept him a week+ in the bathroom and he started coming to me. He was an amazingly smart and maternal male.

alittlelark

(18,933 posts)
53. My guess is he was a runaway behaving as a true feral
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 07:14 PM
Oct 2024

He almost certainly had even around people at a younger time. Males that are intact often ‘go wild’ about 5-7 months old.

femmedem

(8,462 posts)
51. Two DUers with lynx point Siamese cats named Silver!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 04:44 PM
Oct 2024

The odds of that must be as small as the odds of this guy becoming so loving, so quickly, after his feral beginnings.

RandomNumbers

(18,310 posts)
58. What a sweetie! Thank you for saving him.
Sat Oct 12, 2024, 01:46 PM
Oct 2024

He looks like a Myst to me. (Nothing to do with the old game, just that "Misty" would be for a female , and that coat makes me think of mist rolling off a lake in the morning. )

You have lots of great suggestions for names here. I'm sure you'll pick the purrfect one!

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