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Related: About this forumJonathan Bennett details the extreme homophobia that made him develop ulcers
Actor Jonathan Bennett has opened up about growing up in an environment so homophobic he developed stomach ulcers.
Bennett, 40, took to Instagram to share the story to coincide with Spirit Day, the annual celebration that encourages people to wear purple as a sign of anti-bullying solidarity with the queer community. The Mean Girls star offered the tale as a means of inspiring other LGBTQ youth experiencing bullying that life canand doesget better.
I give you a video of a 16-year-old gay boy in Ohio, Bennett wrote. He has a pitchy voice, no rhythm, and cant dance to save his life. Hes awkward, his teeth are too big for his face, and he lives in fear every single day because he doesnt fit in with the rest of the boys in his class. He constantly gets pushed into a locker by an assh*le named Justin and when he walks down the halls he gets called a faggot.
He cries himself to sleep every night and develops stomach ulcers because of the stress and the homophobia in his small town, he further confessed. He thinks really dark thoughts and lives miserably in secret.
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Alcoholism, drug misuse, suicide, mental health issues (depression, OCD, agoraphobia), and physical health issues, these are the "gifts" given to the queer community from a hetero/cisnormative, heterosexist, and homophobic society. Have things become better? Of course, but it doesn't mean things are where they should be, or are even close. I yearn for the day when people realize that systemic bigotry against queer people exists and is as important to dismantle as as any other form of systemic bigotry!
jimfields33
(19,382 posts)A lot of problems occur in that city.
Behind the Aegis
(55,012 posts)This isn't about Hollywood per se, but rather about gay people developing issues because of homophobia. Therefore, I don't understand your comment.
gay texan
(2,929 posts)I started honing my humor and acting skills during the 7th grade.
If I could make people laugh, they'd leave me alone. I learned how to act straight really quick. I'd pick up on visual cues and speech patterns of the straight kids and practice them.
Pretty soon you can blend in, but it comes at a cost to your well being.